The betrayal of a family member, partner, friend, etc. can create physical, mental and emotional challenges. If left unhealed, it impacts us personally and professionally. The From Betrayal to Breakthrough podcast shares insights from the best therapists, coaches, healers, thought leaders and everyday people, combined with the findings of a recent Ph.D. study on betrayal to help you move forward and heal...once and for all.
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What do we know about criminal justice reforms or bail reform? How do we evaluate whether reforms are helping or making the situation worse? How can we take politics out of criminal justice and focus on public safety? The Bail Post seeks to be a place where legislators and the public can educate themselves on a host of criminal justice/bail reform issues. With various attempts at criminal justice reform from New York to Texas to California, many people are confused as to what is working and ...
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Welcome to Point. Blank. Truth. A Podcast for Real Conversations in Real Times. Based in Temecula, California, Point. Blank. Truth. dives into the heart of local politics, explores the often-overlooked challenges faced by military veterans transitioning to civilian life, and unpacks the big-picture issues that affect Americans from all walks of life. We’re not here to shout. We’re here to listen, question, and bridge divides. In a time when conversations often feel polarized or performative, ...
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453: From Betrayal's Breaking Point to Breakthrough: The Untold Story Behind The PBT® Certification Program
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35:17After 450 episodes, the podcast takes a new direction as host Dr. Debi shares the deeply personal story behind the Post Betrayal Transformation® (PBT®) Certification Program—the only research-based program for healing from betrayal using the Five Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough. What You'll Learn The Personal Journey How childhood betrayal and…
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456: Why Betrayal Is Different From Other Traumas
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31:45Dr. Debi breaks down the fundamental differences between betrayal and other types of trauma, explaining why traditional trauma recovery approaches often fall short for betrayal survivors. Key Insights The Three Core Discoveries from Dr. Debi's PhD Research: Betrayal is a different type of trauma that requires a different approach to heal Most peopl…
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455: Why Your Best Coaching Strategies Fail When Betrayal Is at the Root
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59:16In this episode, Dr. Debi shares why unhealed betrayal is the hidden barrier preventing your clients from achieving breakthrough results—and how the PBT® (Post Betrayal Transformation®) Certification equips coaches, healers, and practitioners to create deeper, more predictable transformations. What You'll Learn: Why time doesn't heal betrayal (and …
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454: From Ghosted to Empowered: How to Heal When Someone Disappears
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30:26Join host Dr. Debi as she sits down with Gretta Perlmutter, a certified PBT® coach who specializes in helping people heal from ghosting. Gretta shares her personal journey from being ghosted multiple times to becoming an expert in understanding this painful form of betrayal and helping others move forward with confidence. Key Topics Covered Gretta'…
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452: Letting Go and Moving Into Your Next Best Chapter
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28:42Guest Dr. Rosenna Bakari - Psychologist, Entrepreneur, and Transformational Guide Episode Overview In this powerful conversation, Dr. Rosina BaKari shares her wisdom on letting go of what no longer serves us and stepping into our next best chapters. As a psychologist and entrepreneur, Dr. BaKari brings both professional expertise and personal exper…
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451: Helping Clients Through Betrayal During the Holidays
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29:46The holiday season can be especially challenging for those who've experienced betrayal. This episode explores how coaches and practitioners can help clients navigate the pain that surfaces during this time and introduces the strategic framework of the five stages from betrayal to breakthrough. Key Topics Covered The Holiday Challenge The holidays b…
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450: Your Betrayal Story Is Affecting Your Immune System
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31:09In this transformative episode, I sit down with my own teacher and mentor, Dr. Karen Parker, to explore the fascinating world of Quantum Human Design and how our stories literally shape our biology. Dr. Parker is a pioneer who studied with the founder of traditional Human Design and has taken the system to its next evolution—helping people not just…
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449: Why 68% of Your Clients Can't Focus (The Betrayal Connection No One's Talking About)
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51:59Dr. Debi Silber, founder of the PBT® Institute, shares groundbreaking research on betrayal recovery and introduces the #1 betrayal recovery certification program specifically designed to help coaches, practitioners, and healthcare professionals guide clients through healing from betrayal. Key Topics Covered The Hidden Impact of Unhealed Betrayal Ho…
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448: Redefining Success: A Conversation with Panache Desai
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28:34In this transformative episode, host Dr. Debi Silber sits down with spiritual guide Panache Desai to challenge everything we've been taught about success, fulfillment, and self-worth. If you've achieved success by traditional standards but still feel unfulfilled, this conversation will completely shift your perspective. Key Topics Covered: Redefini…
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447: Why All Trauma Is Betrayal: The Hidden Truth Behind the ACE Study
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41:58In this powerful episode, we welcome Dr. Alman, co-creator of the groundbreaking ACE (Adverse Childhood Experiences) study, to discuss trauma, betrayal, and the path to healing. Dr. Alman shares insights from decades of work with Kaiser Permanente and explains why all trauma contains elements of betrayal. Key Topics Discussed The Origins of the ACE…
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446: Addiction and Betrayal: Breaking the Cycle of Enabling, Denial, and Despair
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35:07In this deeply insightful episode, Dr. Debi Silber sits down with addiction expert Amber Hollingsworth to explore the complex intersection between betrayal and addiction—and the impact it has on partners, families, and loved ones. Amber, who grew up in a family affected by addiction and went on to dedicate her career to helping families heal, share…
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445: When Unhealed Betrayal Follows You to Work
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20:58In this solo episode, Dr. Debi shares 11 anonymized, real-world scenarios showing how unhealed betrayal quietly derails performance, leadership, health, and culture at work. From weight changes and gut issues to micromanagement, perfectionism, disengagement, and self-betrayal, you'll see how a personal rupture (even years old) can surface on the jo…
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444: Fear Isn't the F-Word: Neurohacks for Life After Betrayal
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29:50Betrayal shakes our sense of safety and self-trust—and that lights up fear. In this conversation, fear researcher and author Dr. Mary Poffenroth breaks fear down into plain language and gives you practical, physiology-first tools to calm the brain in the moment. We cover how fear hijacks the amygdala (your alarm system), how to bring the prefrontal…
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Family betrayal cuts deeper than almost any other wound. These are the very people we expect to love, guide, and protect us—and when they break that trust, the pain is overwhelming and confusing. In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber explores how early family betrayals shape our beliefs, relationships, health, and work. She shares her own personal story…
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In this episode, Dr. Debi sits down with Tim Wienecke, Air Force veteran, licensed clinician, and host of American Masculinity. Tim brings a rare and necessary perspective on the often-overlooked intersection of men, betrayal, and moral injury—a form of trauma that arises when individuals are forced to act against their own values, often within sys…
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PBT, Episode 62; TVUSD Board Meeting, September 2025, ft. Cole
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1:11:14Danny and Cole sit down to discuss the key takeaways TVUSD school board meeting in early September.
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Episode No. 71- When Police Stop Policing With Guests Dr. Eric Piza and Nathan T. Connealy
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42:44In 2020, there were protests in Seattle, Washington following the death of George Floyd. For a period of 24 days, an area that became known as the Capitol Hill Occupation Protest (CHOP) was treated as an autonomous zone where the police did not respond to calls. As a result, the CHOP zone became an example of what happens when police stop policing.…
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441: Transforming Betrayal into Breakthrough
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32:12From gang life and juvenile detention to martial arts mastery and life coaching - Sensei Dave Armstrong's journey is a testament to human resilience. After facing prostate cancer at 50 and experiencing profound betrayal when his wife of 11 years left during his darkest hour, Dave shares the powerful tools that helped him rebuild and find hope again…
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PBT, Episode 61; Veterans Talk #2, ft. The Marine Rapper
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1:23:03Danny sits down with The Marine Rapper to discuss his almost 10 years in the Marine Corps, and his transition from warfighter to the music industry.
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PBT, Episode 60; TVUSD Board Meeting, August 2025, ft Cole
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1:09:16Danny and Cole sit down to discuss the intricacies of the TVUSD School board meeting in August.
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440: Divorce, Betrayal & Financial Infidelity: How to Protect Your Money and Future After Trust is Broken
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34:32When betrayal and divorce collide, the emotional toll is staggering—but the financial consequences can be just as devastating. In this candid and deeply informative episode, Dr. Debi sits down with financial strategist and divorce expert Gabriella Martinelli to unpack one of the most overlooked yet critical aspects of betrayal recovery: understandi…
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439: Why Betrayal Lives in the Body—And How to Release It
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36:59In this deeply vulnerable and empowering episode, I sit down with author, speaker, and somatic practitioner, Laurie James, to unpack her remarkable journey from decades of nervous system dysregulation to deep, body-based healing. Laurie's story begins in childhood, where she endured the pain of adoption complexities, sibling abuse, and growing up i…
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438: Writing Your Way Home: Reclaiming Your Voice After Betrayal
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32:06In this deeply moving episode, Dr. Debi Silber is joined by author and transformational guide Megan Walrod, whose debut novel It's Always Been Me is not just a story—it's a healing journey. What began as a personal process to move through her own betrayal turned into a breathtaking fictional narrative that reflects the five stages from betrayal to …
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PBT, Episode 59; A Deep Testimony of a Family Man, ft. Gio
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1:21:54Danny sits down with Gio from the Don't Mind Us Podcast and gets an intense breakdown of a situation he experienced as a man, a husband, and a father. this podcast episode is heavy! we hope you enjoy.
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Episode No. 70- Recognizing and Taking on Soft on Crime District Attorneys with Guest Anne Marie Schubert
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54:36Anne Marie Schubert is a career prosecutor. Schubert earned a bachelor's degree from Saint Mary’s College of California in 1986 and a J.D. from the University of San Francisco in 1989. Her career experience includes being the Sacramento County District Attorney, Supervising Deputy District Attorney of the Sacramento District Attorney's Office, and …
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437: Rebuilding After the Fire: Grief, Identity, and Healing After Betrayal
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36:19📝 Episode Summary: In this heart-opening episode, Dr. Debi Silber sits down with PBT® Coach Lisa Teichmiller to explore the essential—but often overlooked—role of grief in the betrayal recovery journey. Lisa shares her personal story of navigating betrayal not just in her marriage, but in her business and identity, offering a raw and relatable test…
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PBT, Episode 58; Candidate for Riverside County Supervisor, ft. Eric Stalter
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1:06:15We sat down with Eric Stalter who is running for district 5of the Riverside County Board of Supervisors. This was an enjoyable conversation where we talked about life, his background, his views on fatherhood, the problems that he sees in Riverside County, and how he plans to address them. Please visit his website if you have any questions stalter4s…
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436: The Truth About Forgiveness: What It Is, What It Isn't, and Why It Matters
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27:26In this powerful episode, Dr. Debi Silber dives into one of the most misunderstood yet essential parts of healing after betrayal: forgiveness. She explores forgiveness from two sides—forgiving ourselves and forgiving others—and unpacks the deep misconceptions that keep people stuck in pain, resentment, and confusion. You'll learn why forgiveness do…
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435: How Agreeableness Makes You a Target for Narcissists
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31:49In this powerful episode, Dr. Debi Silber sits down with licensed psychotherapist and author Chelsea Brooke Cole to unpack the intersection of narcissism and agreeableness. Chelsea shares her personal journey through two narcissistic marriages—one with a grandiose narcissist, and the other with a vulnerable one—and how her agreeable nature played a…
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PBT, Episode 57; Dads Talk #1, ft. Kenneth Prado
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1:10:48Sat down with Mr. Kenneth Prado to hear the story about his upbringing, and what inspired him to become a school board member in Hemet California. Just two dads, sitting down and talking about life, the struggles that men face, and what we think about fatherhood and being involved in our children's education.…
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Episode No. 69- The 2025 Texas Legislative Session
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1:31:28On this episode of The Bail Post we discuss the 2025 Texas Legislative Session to highlight the major bail bills and proposed constitutional amendments that were considered. We highlight important changes to 17.19 of the Texas Code of Criminal Procedure. Also, we highlight, SJR 5, SB 9 and SB 40 that were passed this session. Our guests are the PBT…
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434: Rewiring the Mind After Betrayal: Tools for Mental Spiral Recovery
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31:19In this powerful conversation, Dr. Debi welcomes back Elizabeth Kipp—one of our beloved PBT Coaches—for a deep dive into the mental spiral that often follows betrayal. They explore the imprint trauma leaves on the nervous system, how to catch yourself in old patterns, and simple yet effective tools to get back into the body and regain a sense of co…
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PBT, Episode 56; Veterans Talk #1, ft. Claude Cintron
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53:17Two Marine Corps Veterans sitting down to discuss the transition, the process we experienced, and how we have made it through the traditional difficult times to become successful, functioning, and productive members of society.
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433: Enabling After Betrayal: Why It Hurts More Than It Helps
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19:29In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber explores the difficult but essential topic of enabling—how we unknowingly prevent both ourselves and others from experiencing the crash-and-burn moments necessary for transformation. Drawing from real conversations with PBT® members, certified coaches, and personal experiences, Dr. Debi reveals how enabling behavior…
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PBT, Episode 55; TVUSD Board Meeting, July 2025, ft. Cole
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1:19:37In this episode Danny sits down with Cole to discuss the July Board meeting, the conduct of the board members, and our perspective on how things are going as parents of the district and regular citizens in the community of Temecula California.
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PBT, Episode 30, Legal System for Parental Rights, ft. Adam Vena and Kortnee Graves
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1:14:20an older episode that I had to delete and re-upload for the transition from podbean to spotify.
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PBT, Episode 23, The First Zoom Episode, ft. Jennifer Pham
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1:09:28An epsiode recorded back in early 2024 that was deleted and reloaded for the transition from podbean to Spotify.
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432: Betrayal, Forgiveness, and Rebuilding Trust: A Candid Conversation
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34:03In this powerful episode, I'm joined by Dr. Bruce Chalmer—psychologist, author, and podcast host—for an in-depth discussion about betrayal, forgiveness, and the path to healing. Dr. Chalmer shares his deeply personal journey from pain to purpose, what drew him into clinical work with couples, and why betrayal demands a very different approach to he…
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PBT, Episode 54; Tell Us How You Really Feel (part 2), ft. David Sola
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1:00:20My continued conversation with Mr. Sola.By TemeculaParents
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PBT, Episode 53; Tell Us How You Really Feel (part 1), ft. David Sola
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59:45It took some time, but I'm happy to finally get this one out. Part one of a two-part conversation with a fellow Marine, a different perspective, but just as involved and passionate about his stance.By TemeculaParents
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PBT, Episode 52; TVUSD Board Meeting, March 2025 (part 2), ft. Cole
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50:36Finishing up the discussion from the previous episode, and then jumping straight into the public comment reviews and responses (which is always fun).By TemeculaParents
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431: From Pain to Peace: How Spiritual Laws Can Heal Physical and Emotional Wounds
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34:13In this powerful and unexpected episode, Dr. Debi Silber is joined by Beatty Carmichael, author of The Prayer of Freedom, to explore how deeply rooted emotional pain—especially betrayal—can manifest in physical symptoms like chronic pain, anxiety, addiction, and more. Beatty shares his remarkable journey from a seven-generation family of medical do…
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PBT, Episode 51; TVUSD Board Meeting, March 2025 (part 1), ft. Cole
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53:22An episode I have sat on for months. My apologies to the listeners for the delay, but here you go. Part 2 will drop tomorrow.By TemeculaParents
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PBT, Episode 50, The Rebirth of a Dying Platform
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22:47a short update of where the podcast content has been, why, what's been going on, and where we are going!By TemeculaParents
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430: Betrayal in Business: Legal Protection, Boundaries, and Healing
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30:31In this powerful and practical conversation, Dr. Debi Silber welcomes her personal attorney and legal expert Lisa Fraley to explore the often-overlooked world of workplace and entrepreneurial betrayal. Whether you've been undermined by a boss, copied by a competitor, or blindsided by a client chargeback, this episode unpacks the emotional and legal…
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429: From Breakdown to Breakthrough: How Coaches and Healers Can Use the 5 Stages of Betrayal Recovery
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23:46In this powerful wrap-up to a multi-part series on betrayal and healing, Dr. Debi Silber recaps the three foundational discoveries from her research, revisits the 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough, and shares how coaches, practitioners, and healers can integrate this proven framework into their work. Whether you're helping clients with mindset…
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428: The 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough (and Why You May Be Stuck)
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30:37Last week, we explored the three groundbreaking discoveries about betrayal, why people stay stuck, and the symptoms of Post Betrayal Syndrome®. This week, Dr. Debi Silber takes you deeper into the 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough—the same proven, research-based framework used at The PBT® Institute to help thousands fully heal. Whether you're …
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427: The Trauma No One Talks About: How Betrayal Rewires You
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30:05Think time heals all wounds? When it comes to betrayal, that simply isn't true. In this deeply personal and powerful episode, Dr. Debi Silber explores why betrayals from years—or even decades—ago may still be affecting your health, relationships, performance, and self-worth today. Drawing on research from her PhD study and her own healing journey, …
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426: Nervous System Healing & Human Design
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31:12Guest: Akary Busto – Nervous System Specialist, Human Design Expert, Breathwork Facilitator Episode Summary: What does it really mean to regulate your nervous system—and how do you know when it's dysregulated in the first place? In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber is joined by her friend and fellow healer Akary Busto for a wide-ranging, insight-packed…
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425: Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal—What It Really Takes
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34:13Guest: Geoff Steurer, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Betrayal Trauma Specialist, and Co-Host of From Crisis to Connection Episode Summary: In this powerful conversation, Dr. Debi Silber sits down with Geoff Steurer to unpack the deeply layered process of rebuilding trust after betrayal. Whether the betrayal came from infidelity, emotional …
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