Best selflovejourney Podcasts (2025)

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Jealousy: Is This Real or Just Insecurity? 10:24

1d ago10:24

10:24

Do you feel jealous when your wife smiles at another man? Or when she laughs at her phone and it’s not a text from you? Does your mind go to: “Is she pulling away?” “Is there someone else?” “Am I being replaced?” You’re not crazy. You’re not weak. But you may be reacting from insecurity — not truth. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we…

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Why She Isn't Into Sex As Much As You Are. 9:42

4d ago9:42

9:42

You want sex. She doesn’t. You feel confused, rejected, and maybe even ashamed. You wonder: “Why doesn’t she want me like I want her?” “Is something wrong with me… or her?” In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we explain what’s really going on when your wife isn’t as interested in sex — and why it doesn’t mean she’s broken or you’re not e…

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The Problem With Giving To Get: Unspoken Deals That Are Ruining Your Marriage 11:10

5d ago11:10

11:10

You do something nice. You help around the house. You give a compliment or say “I love you.” But deep down, you’re hoping she gives something back — maybe sex, affection, or appreciation. That’s called giving to get, and it’s ruining your connection. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we break down: What “giving to get” really means Why…

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Stop Guilt-Tripping Her About Sex — It’s Not Bringing Her Closer 9:24

7d ago9:24

9:24

If you’ve ever said: “Why don’t you want me?” “You never initiate anymore.” “You’d have sex with me if you really loved me…” This episode is for you. Guilt does not create intimacy. It creates pressure. And pressure pushes her away — every single time. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we explain why guilt never works, what’s really go…

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Self Love is Not Selfish Nor Narcissistic 8:35

9d ago8:35

8:35

You’ve been told real men always sacrifice. That setting boundaries is cold. That taking care of yourself is selfish. But here’s the truth: Self love is not selfish. Self love is not narcissistic. Self love is strength. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we unpack a lie many men were raised to believe — that putting yourself first means…

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Different Woman, Same Wounds: Why the Next Relationship Will Hurt Too (Unless You Heal) 9:52

12d ago9:52

9:52

Thinking about starting over with someone new? Feeling tired, disconnected, or done with your marriage? This episode is your wake-up call. In today’s video, we talk about a truth most men miss: 👉 You can leave your marriage... 👉 You can find someone new who laughs at your jokes and wants you again... 👉 But if you don’t heal your inner wounds — the …

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You May Be Able to Live Without Affection, But I Can't 9:15

13d ago9:15

9:15

If you feel starved without touch… you’re not weak. You’re human. This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast is for the man who feels like he can’t live without affection. You feel the pain of not being hugged, held, or touched — and it’s starting to feel like you’re falling apart. In this video, we break down: Why affection is a real, valid need —…

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Yes, You're Each 100% Responsible for Your Own Happiness — But You Still Influence Hers 8:51

16d ago8:51

8:51

You are the only one in charge of your happiness. But your energy still shapes your marriage every single day. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we break down the truth that many men miss: You can’t make your wife happy — but your words, actions, and attitude affect her deeply. When you lead yourself with strength, peace, and purpose… …

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Understanding Your Wife's Desire: Why It Changed 11:14

17d ago11:14

11:14

By M. Bruce Abbott, M.A, CPC

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If I Stop Chasing Her, Am I Giving Up on Sex and Affection? 9:58

19d ago9:58

9:58

You’re tired of chasing your wife. Tired of being the one who always reaches out first. Tired of feeling unwanted, unheard, and unseen. So you’re asking the question: “If I stop trying, am I giving up on intimacy?” This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast gives you the answer — in clear, honest, simple language. You’re not giving up. You’re givin…

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It’s Not Love — It’s Neediness 10:22

21d ago10:22

10:22

Do you feel like you're being loving, but she feels smothered? It's neediness, not love. This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast will challenge what you think love looks like. If you find yourself giving affection but getting distance in return, this is for you. Here’s what we cover: ✅ Why your “love” might actually be emotional neediness ✅ How …

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Why You Feel Lonely in Your Marriage (And What It’s Really About) 8:39

23d ago8:39

8:39

Do you feel lonely in your marriage — like you live with your wife, but you feel invisible? You’re not broken. You’re not weak. You’re not crazy. But the truth is, the loneliness isn’t just about her pulling away… It’s about a part of you that you’ve left behind. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we show you why you feel disconnected —…

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How Do I Reconnect With My Wife Without Chasing? 10:03

25d ago10:03

10:03

You love your wife. You still want to hold her. You want to feel close again — but every time you reach for her, she pulls away. If you’ve asked yourself, “How do I reconnect without chasing or pressuring her?” this episode is for you. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we walk through a clear, step-by-step process to help you reconnect…

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Your Wife Cannot Be Your God: Why You Need a Higher Power to Heal and Lead 13:15

28d ago13:15

13:15

If your peace rises and falls based on your wife’s mood... If you feel rejected, worthless, or unloved when she pulls away... You may be looking to your wife for something she was never meant to give. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we explain why no woman — even a great wife — can be your emotional source, and what happens when she …

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Stop Having 'The Talk': Why Begging for Sex Is Backfiring — and What to Do Instead 13:25

1M ago13:25

13:25

You’ve been thinking about it. You’re hurt. You’re about to have “the talk” with your wife: “We never have sex anymore.” “Why don’t you initiate?” “I feel unwanted.” Sound familiar? This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast explains why those talks often backfire — and how chasing, begging, and emotional pressure actually drive intimacy away. This…

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Your Wife Says She's Done With The Marriage - What Do You Do? 12:47

1M ago12:47

12:47

If your wife says she’s done… but hasn’t left yet — this episode is for you. Maybe she’s checked out. She’s cold, distant, and barely speaks to you. She says things like: “I’m tired.” “I don’t think this is working.” “I don’t feel anything anymore.” You know you pushed her away — maybe through distance, control, neglect, or emotional chaos. And now…

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So Hum 🕉️ 15:59

1M ago15:59

15:59

Continuing on our journey of introspection…🤗 Happy 7 Year Anniversary of Yoga Podcast with Breezy Bree 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Want to learn more about Somatic Healing? ❤️‍🩹 Visit us at www.iloveyogatherapy.org Namaste💫 Thanks for listening! DO ALL THINGS WITH LOVE “TRUE WISDOM IS THE INNER CONTEMPLATION OF SELF” Email me or find me on IG: @yogapodcast @lovebreezybr…

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She Hasn’t Initiated Sex in 10 Years — Now What? 9:46

1M ago9:46

9:46

If your wife hasn’t initiated sex in years, you’re not alone — and you’re not broken. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we tackle one of the hardest and most painful topics in marriage: feeling unwanted and unseen in the bedroom. You’ve been patient. You’ve tried to be loving. You’ve done your best. But nothing has changed. And now you…

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Build a Life, Not a Pedestal: Why Your Wife Should Be a Bonus, Not the Foundation 12:50

1M ago12:50

12:50

Have you made your wife the center of your world? Are you losing yourself trying to hold the marriage together? In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we’re talking to men who’ve built their identity around their wife—and now feel empty, resentful, or stuck when the connection fades. Your wife should be a gift in your life, not the reason y…

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Why Your Marriage Feels So Hard — Even When You’re Doing Everything Right 13:49

1M ago13:49

13:49

You show up. You try hard. You do everything “right.” So why does your marriage still feel so hard? If you're a good man who helps, listens, gives, and shows up every day—but still feels unwanted, unseen, or unappreciated—this episode is for you. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce breaks down why things feel so heavy even when you…

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When You're Stuck In Your Marriage: Do I Stay? Do I Leave? 12:43

1M ago12:43

12:43

Feeling stuck in your marriage? You're not alone. Maybe you're not in crisis—but you're not happy either. The love feels distant. You're living like roommates. And you're caught between two painful options: 👉 “Should I stay and suffer?” 👉 “Should I leave and wreck everything?” This episode of The Secure Husband Podcast is for men who feel lost in t…

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You're Not Weak, You're Wounded | Why Some Men Don't Understand 10:52

1M ago10:52

10:52

Have you ever been called "too emotional" or "needy"? Maybe you've felt ashamed because you care deeply, want connection, and struggle when your wife pulls away. If so, this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast is for you. You are not weak. You are wounded—and wounded doesn’t mean broken. It means there’s something inside you that needs healing, n…

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Boundaries: Stop Accepting The Unacceptable 12:54

1M ago12:54

12:54

Many men stay quiet in their marriage to keep the peace. But peace that costs your self-worth isn’t peace—it’s fear. In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, Bruce Abbott explains why so many men accept the unacceptable in their relationships—and how to stop. Using the Secure Husband Process, he walks you through 6 clear steps to set strong, …

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You Can't Fix Your Wife | Real Change Starts With You 12:42

2M ago12:42

12:42

Do you feel like you’re always trying to fix your wife? Do you think if she just changed, everything in your marriage would finally feel okay? Here’s the truth: you can’t fix your wife. But you can fix the part of you that keeps reacting to her. In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott breaks down why real change starts with you—not her.…

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Are You Stuck In Victim Thinking? 12:59

2M ago12:59

12:59

Do you feel like nothing you do is enough in your marriage? Like your wife has all the power, and you're always chasing approval? You may be stuck in victim thinking—and it’s keeping you from being the strong, secure man you want to be. In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott breaks down what victim thinking really is, where it starts, …

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Sex Is Not A Measure Of Your Worth In A Marriage 14:09

2M ago14:09

14:09

Do you feel rejected when your wife pulls away from sex? Do you feel unwanted, not enough, or ashamed when intimacy is missing? You’re not alone—but this pain goes deeper than the bedroom. In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott explains why so many men use sex as a scorecard for their value—and how to break free from that cycle. This i…

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The Spiritual Foundation of The Secure Husband: How to Heal Rejection & Find Unshakable Self-Worth 12:00

2M ago12:00

12:00

Do you feel rejected, unseen, or not enough in your marriage? Do you feel like you keep chasing your wife’s love, hoping it will finally make you feel worthy? In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott shares the missing piece most men overlook—the spiritual foundation that will help you heal rejection and build unshakable self-worth. This…

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What Is The Secure Husband Process? | How To Heal Yourself & Lead Your Marriage 10:33

2M ago10:33

10:33

Are you tired of feeling stuck in your marriage? Do you feel like no matter what you do, your wife pulls away, shuts down, or seems distant? You might be trying to fix the wrong problem. The truth is—you don’t need to fix her. You need to learn how to lead yourself first. In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott explains exactly what The…

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Thriving In A Marriage With An Avoidant Attachment Wife 8:32

2M ago8:32

8:32

Do you feel like your wife always pulls away? Like she keeps her walls up, avoids deep conversations, or shuts down when you try to connect? You may be married to a woman with an avoidant attachment style. And chasing her or trying to fix her will only push her further away. In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott shows you how to stop …

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How To Stop Fearing Your Wife 9:51

2M ago9:51

9:51

Do you feel like you walk on eggshells around your wife? Do you avoid conflict, get anxious when she’s upset, or feel like you're always messing up? You’re not weak—you’re stuck in a fear response. In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott breaks down a clear path to help you stop reacting out of fear and start leading with calm strength.…

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Is This Why My Wife Doesn't Want To Have Sex With Me? | Preoccupied Attachment 12:18

2M ago12:18

12:18

You try hard to fix things. You give, you ask, you wait. But your wife still feels distant—especially when it comes to sex. If that sounds familiar, this episode may explain why. We’re talking about preoccupied attachment—a hidden pattern where your self-worth depends on how your wife responds to you. You might think your love is strong, but if it’…

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What You Think Will Save Your Marriage is The Same Thing Pushing Her Away | Preoccupied Attachment. 7:42

2M ago7:42

7:42

You think chasing her love will save your marriage—but it’s doing the opposite. In this episode of the Secure Husband podcast, we discuss how preoccupied attachment creates emotional pressure, weakens attraction, and drives your wife away. You’ll learn how this need for constant validation leads to anxiety, control, and emotional distance—even when…

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Are You Abandoning Your Inner Child in Marriage? 6:44

2M ago6:44

6:44

Are you ignoring your own needs to keep the relationship going? If so, you might be abandoning your inner child without even realizing it. When your spouse doesn’t put in effort, it’s easy to minimize your pain, take too much responsibility, or tell yourself you shouldn’t need more. This episode will help you recognize and break free from these pat…

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She Says She Doesn't Want To Go To Couples Counseling. Now What? 4:44

2M ago4:44

4:44

She said she doesn’t want to go to couples counseling. That can be tough to hear, but what if this moment is actually an opportunity for clarity and growth? Instead of seeing this as rejection, what if it’s a sign that it’s time to focus on your healing? In this episode, we respond to a podcast listener's comment about a wife who refuses to go to c…

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How Do I Overcome Past Emotional Reactions? 5:01

2M ago5:01

5:01

Do you find yourself reacting to rejection with anger, withdrawal, or neediness? These patterns don’t define you, but they do keep you stuck. Healing starts when you stop abandoning yourself in response to pain. In this video, you’ll learn: ✅ Why your emotional reactions come from old survival patterns ✅ How to meet your inner child with deep compa…

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What If Saving Your Marriage Has Nothing To Do With Your Wife? 6:44

2M ago6:44

6:44

Is your wife’s withdrawal making you feel rejected, unworthy, or insecure? The truth is, saving your marriage starts with healing yourself—not trying to change her. The Secure Husband process helps you connect with your inner child, stop self-abandoning, and step into self-love. In this video, you’ll learn: ✅ How your wife’s behavior triggers old w…

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When the tables turn a narcissist is never ready! 21:08

3M ago21:08

21:08

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Compassionate Self-Forgiveness 🥰 4:57

4M ago4:57

4:57

“I FORGIVE MYSELF” 🥰 Continuing on our journey of introspection…🤗 Want to learn more about Somatic Healing? ❤️‍🩹 Visit us at www.iloveyogatherapy.org Namaste💫 Thanks for listening! DO ALL THINGS WITH LOVE “TRUE WISDOM IS THE INNER CONTEMPLATION OF SELF” Email me or find me on IG: @yogapodcast @lovebreezybree Bree Morena de Santos, Ed.D E-RYT® 500, …

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Self-Healing Tips as Healers 🤍 6:51

4M ago6:51

6:51

Continuing on our journey of introspection…🤗 Want to learn more about Somatic Healing? ❤️‍🩹 Visit us at www.iloveyogatherapy.org Namaste💫 Thanks for listening! DO ALL THINGS WITH LOVE “TRUE WISDOM IS THE INNER CONTEMPLATION OF SELF” Email me or find me on IG: @yogapodcast @lovebreezybree Bree Morena de Santos, Ed.D E-RYT® 500, RCYT®, RPYT®, YACEP®,…

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Identify Your Values 📝 #JournalPrompt 5:26

4M ago5:26

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What are your values?! Let’s Journal 📝 our thoughts as we continue on this journey of healing. Want to learn more about Somatic Healing? ❤️‍🩹 Visit us at www.iloveyogatherapy.org Last chance to Sign up for our free Grant Funded Course! Live sessions conclude on 2/28/25! Namaste💫 Thanks for listening! DO ALL THINGS WITH LOVE “TRUE WISDOM IS THE INNE…

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Envision your True You! #selflovejourney 7:42

4M ago7:42

7:42

What is your definition of Self-Love? Want to learn more about Somatic Healing? ❤️‍🩹 Visit us at www.iloveyogatherapy.org Namaste💫 Thanks for listening! DO ALL THINGS WITH LOVE “TRUE WISDOM IS THE INNER CONTEMPLATION OF SELF” Email me or find me on IG: @yogapodcast @lovebreezybree Bree Morena de Santos, Ed.D E-RYT® 500, RCYT®, RPYT®, YACEP®, RYS300…

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How to be Mindful ☮️ 11:00

4M ago11:00

11:00

Protect your peace with Mindfulness ☮️ Namaste💫 Thanks for listening! DO ALL THINGS WITH LOVE “TRUE WISDOM IS THE INNER CONTEMPLATION OF SELF” Email me or find me on IG: @yogapodcast @lovebreezybree Bree Morena de Santos, Ed.D E-RYT® 500, RCYT®, RPYT®, YACEP®, RYS300® www.lovebreezybreeyoga.com NAMASTE! Consult medical advisement before beginning a…

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15 Day Journey of Self-Love 🥰 8:44

5M ago8:44

8:44

Let’s go on a journey of Self-Love! With this 15+ day prompt, we can begin with focus! Namaste💫 Thanks for listening! DO ALL THINGS WITH LOVE “TRUE WISDOM IS THE INNER CONTEMPLATION OF SELF” Email me or find me on IG: @yogapodcast @lovebreezybree Bree Morena de Santos, Ed.D E-RYT® 500, RCYT®, RPYT®, YACEP®, RYS300® www.lovebreezybreeyoga.com NAMAST…

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Survived and now thriving after narcissistic abuse what that truly means 31:19

5M ago31:19

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In this empowering episode of "Survived and Now Thriving," we delve into the profound journey of healing and transformation that follows narcissistic abuse. Join us as we explore what it truly means to not just survive, but to thrive in the aftermath of such a challenging experience. Insights that illuminate the path from victimhood to empowerment,…

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Samskaras, Practice Observing Your Patterns 🔭 8:53

5M ago8:53

8:53

Samskaras are thought of as patterns, mental impressions, recollections, or physiological imprints. In yoga philosophy, it is believed that every action or intent creates a samskara in a person's mind. These samskaras then live in a person and manifest as tendencies, karmic impulses, or dispositions throughout their life. Namaste💫 Thanks for listen…

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The moment the abuse started to take your life to another level 27:21

5M ago27:21

27:21

Welcome to today's episode of my podcast, where we delve deep into the harrowing yet transformative journey of surviving narcissistic abuse. In this powerful episode, we explore the pivotal moment when the abuse escalated, taking your life to an entirely different level. We'll share personal stories, insights, and strategies for recognizing the sig…

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Mantra “Be the Love” 🤍 7:42

5M ago7:42

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This is one of my favorite mantras, repeating “Be the Love” whilst meditating reminds me to just be. Sometimes we don’t feel seen or loved. Forgetting that love isn’t a gift. It just is. You can’t control it. Just let Love Be and just Be the Love. 🤍🤍🤍🤍 🪬 Visit www.iloveyogatherapy.org Namaste💫 Thanks for listening! DO ALL THINGS WITH LOVE “TRUE WIS…

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VIDEO: Rest for Digestion 🔥 18:48

5M ago18:48

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Watch on Spotify or YouTube! In this new series Yoga Foundations, I teach live in-studio & virtual classes on topics every new yoga student needs to build their lifelong practice! Namaste💫 Thanks for listening!!! Be the ☀️ ⭐️Listen to the Audio Class or Watch the free Video Class on YouTube!⭐️—->https://youtu.be/3q_eav4fTG0?si=TGEpNcFVSaAlAcyp Emai…

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🎙️ When Narcissists Lose Their Power Play 24:36

5M ago24:36

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Are you ready for the ultimate mic drop moment? Join us as we dive into the hilarious and empowering journey of reclaiming your identity after narcissistic abuse! Ever notice how narcissists spend years trying to make you feel like the "weird" one, only to completely short-circuit when you finally step into your authentic, powerful self? We're brea…

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Narcissistic abuse pushed me into the worst & best version of myself. 19:21

6M ago19:21

19:21

In this episode I’m discussing how I’ve gone from victim to survivor and now thriving ! What has not killed me. Is making me stronger than I ever imagined.By Jennifer abrefa

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