Do you feel like you’re always trying to fix your wife? Do you think if she just changed, everything in your marriage would finally feel okay? Here’s the truth: you can’t fix your wife. But you can fix the part of you that keeps reacting to her.

In this episode of The Secure Husband, Bruce Abbott breaks down why real change starts with you—not her. You’ll learn how to stop trying to control her emotions, stop reacting from old wounds, and start leading from inner peace and strength.

This episode walks you step by step through the Secure Husband Process, showing you how to:
✔️ Notice your emotional triggers without blaming her
✔️ Lead yourself instead of trying to manage her
✔️ Heal the inner boy who keeps chasing love
✔️ Replace fear with spiritual truth and confidence
✔️ Set healthy boundaries without guilt or control
✔️ Break free from people-pleasing and emotional chasing
✔️ Become the calm, grounded man your wife can trust and respect

You don’t need to fix your wife to feel whole.
You need to heal you—and the rest will follow.

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