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Some stories don’t just deserve to be heard—they demand change. In this powerful episode of 1 in 3 Podcast, Morgan Scafe joins host Ingrid Dutton to share her harrowing story of child sexual abuse that began at age eight and continued until fifteen. She reveals how a courtroom turned her truth into a test—forcing her to relive trauma while sitting just feet from her abuser.

Together, we examine how statutes of limitations erased most of her abuse from trial and why Morgan wrote Carpenter Road: The Inadmissible Years—a prequel that exposes the grooming process and violent control tactics that adults and schools overlooked. This conversation dives deep into generational trauma, alcohol misuse, and the many missed red flags—plummeting grades, chronic absences, unexplained bruises, and emotional outbursts—that should have triggered mandated reporting.

Morgan offers a firsthand look at what trauma-informed justice should be: options for remote testimony, jury education on memory and stress, and legal teams trained to avoid re-victimization. The throughline is clear—prevention. Teaching “good touch, bad touch” isn’t enough. Children need age-appropriate education on grooming, including how abusers use gifts, secrets, isolation, and trust to gain control.

We also explore practical steps for parents, teachers, and communities to recognize early warning signs and make intervention the norm—not the exception. Morgan’s story is both a warning and a guidepost for how we can do better.

This episode closes with a message every survivor needs to hear: shame must change sides. Healing is possible. Therapy helps. And your voice isn’t just valid—it’s vital.

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Morgan’s Links:

https://www.1in3podcast.com/guests/morgan-scafe-1/

https://morganscafe.net/

https://www.facebook.com/carpenterroadscafe

https://www.amazon.com/CARPENTER-ROAD-SENTENCED-MORGAN-SCAFE/dp/B0BW2LXP2N/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0

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Cover art by Laura Swift Dahlke
Music by Tim Crowe

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Chapters

1. 93-From Silence to Strength: Grooming, Justice, and Prevention with Morgan Scafe (00:00:00)

2. Introducing Morgan And Her Mission (00:00:46)

3. Caregiving Career And Writing Her Memoir (00:02:01)

4. Why The Story Starts At Fourteen (00:03:58)

5. Statutes, Silences, And The Prequel (00:06:49)

6. Generational Trauma And The Perfect Storm (00:09:26)

7. Found Advocates And Choosing To Heal (00:12:56)

8. Inside A Traumatizing Court Process (00:15:41)

9. Conviction Won And Its Cost (00:21:26)

10. Aftermath For The Abuser’s Family (00:24:38)

11. Schools Missed Alarming Red Flags (00:29:16)

12. Violent Grooming And Control Tactics (00:33:32)

13. Systems That Protect Perpetrators (00:36:42)

14. Why Victims Stay And Return (00:41:25)

15. Parole Failures And Community Risk (00:45:44)

16. Ongoing Fallout And Fear (00:51:09)

17. Teaching Kids To Spot Grooming (00:55:29)

18. Prevention Over Reaction (01:00:43)

19. Where To Find Morgan’s Books (01:03:21)

20. Final Message: Shame Must Change Sides (01:04:53)

21. Closing And Ways To Support (01:06:58)

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