Safety Is Not Something You Find, It's Something You Are
A Millennial's Guide to Healthy Emotional Regulation with Jayna Swan
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Have you ever wondered why some people seem to radiate a sense of safety and calm, while others constantly chase it? Today's episode dives deep into a personal breakthrough that forever changed my understanding of what it means to be safe in the world.
Through a spontaneous journal entry that emerged from a simple check-in text with a friend, I share my journey through the multiple dimensions of safety. What began as an external pursuit—seeking safety through self-defense skills, gated communities, and protective relationships—evolved into something far more profound.
The transformation came when I stopped seeing safety as something to acquire and recognized it as something I already am. "I am safe" shifted from a mere affirmation to an embodied frequency, a vibration that permeates every cell of my being. This realization didn't happen overnight but emerged through intentional silence, meditation, and a willingness to explore the layers of my own consciousness.
When we vibrate at the frequency of safety, everything in our universe shifts. We attract different experiences, relationships, and opportunities that match this new energy. People inexplicably feel comfortable in our presence, often sharing things they've never told anyone else. This isn't coincidence—it's resonance. We become not just recipients of safety but embodiments of it, creating safe spaces wherever we go.
The most beautiful part? This state of being is available to everyone. Safety isn't something you can learn, buy, wear, hire, build, or create—it's something you are. By choosing to embody safety at the deepest level, you transform not only your own experience of life but how others experience you. Ready to make this shift? All you have to do is choose it.
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Themes: Emotional Mastery, Mindset, Storytelling, Confidence, Health & Productivity, Creativity, Communication Skills, Business, Movement, Meditation, Mindfulness, Manifestation, Resilience, Letting Go, Surrender, Feminine Energy, Masculine Energy, Love, Personal Growth.
Chapters
1. Journal Entry on Letting Go (00:00:00)
2. Three Dimensions of Safety (00:03:00)
3. From External to Internal to Eternal (00:04:43)
4. Embodying the Frequency of Safety (00:07:11)
5. Attracting Your Matching Frequency (00:10:03)
6. Choosing Your Vibration (00:11:51)
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