In this episode, North Carolina family law attorney Jana Jones explains what happens when a child says they want to live with one parent over the other. She breaks down how courts handle a child’s preference, what “best interest” really means, and when it might lead to a custody change. Jana also shares practical advice for parents—how to approach the other parent, when to seek mediation, and why emotional balance and communication matter just as much as legal steps.

Key Timestamps:

00:00 – How North Carolina courts view a child’s custody preference
02:00 – When a judge will speak directly with a child
04:00 – Why stability and safety matter more than preference
06:00 – Factors courts consider in deciding custody
08:00 – What dads should do if a child wants to live with them
10:00 – Using therapy to support children and parents through changes
12:00 – How mediation can help parents reach a new custody agreement
14:00 – What a “friendly lawsuit” looks like in family court
15:30 – Steps to take before filing a motion to modify custody

About the Show:

Advocating for Dads with Jana Jones helps fathers understand their legal rights and responsibilities in North Carolina family law. With over 15 years of experience, Attorney Jana Jones shares real-world insights and practical advice to help dads protect their relationships with their children and make informed decisions through custody and family court challenges.