What happens when society merges your identity as a woman with your role as a mother? In this groundbreaking conversation, we're joined by Uche, a 38-year-old single independent woman who boldly challenges the way we think about identity, boundaries, and self-prioritization.
Uche illuminates the critical difference between being a single woman and being a single mother, two separate identities that often become entangled not just by society, but first in our own minds. With refreshing candor, she reveals how institutions, communities, and even religious organizations inadvertently force single mothers into spaces where they don't fully belong, listening to guidance about maintaining marriages when they actually need support in building new relationships.
The most powerful moment comes when Uche declares, "I come first and my son comes second." This statement isn't about loving her child less – it's a revolutionary act of self-preservation. As she eloquently explains, "The woman comes before the mother... it's that woman in the mother that is carrying the family." When we eliminate our womanhood, we become the inner voice "screaming in silence to be heard, but nobody's going to hear."
Through personal stories and practical wisdom, we explore the tools needed to reclaim your identity: confronting fears, making peace with outcomes, and consistently acting in alignment with your chosen identity. You'll discover why it's crucial to "give to yourself what you expect other people to give you" and how to train people on how to treat you through clear boundaries.
Whether you're a parent or not, this conversation offers profound insights about authentic living, inner harmony, and the courage to say: "This is who I am." Ready to reclaim your identity and drive your own life's "red car"? Listen now and join us in bringing the woman back.

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