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Why You Keep Overexplaining (and Still Feel Misunderstood)

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Why do we keep explaining... and explaining... and explaining — and still walk away feeling misunderstood (and kind of embarrassed)? 😵‍💫

In this week's episode we’re diving into why overexplaining is so common for high-achieving, anxious-attached girlies — and why it actually makes you feel less secure (not more).

We’ll talk about:

- How overexplaining is really a nervous system response (not just “bad communication”)

- Why your anxious attachment thrives on overexplaining (and how to gently stop)

- The difference between clarifying vs. oversharing

- Simple, real-world tools to feel heard without feeling like you’re doing a TED Talk at your boyfriend 🚩

If you’re ready to stop feeling like you need a PowerPoint presentation to get your needs met, you’re in the right place. 😌✨

🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥

💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖

🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕

FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube

WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session

  continue reading

76 episodes

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Manage episode 479804161 series 3535534
Content provided by bethathealinggirl. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by bethathealinggirl or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://staging.podcastplayer.com/legal.

Why do we keep explaining... and explaining... and explaining — and still walk away feeling misunderstood (and kind of embarrassed)? 😵‍💫

In this week's episode we’re diving into why overexplaining is so common for high-achieving, anxious-attached girlies — and why it actually makes you feel less secure (not more).

We’ll talk about:

- How overexplaining is really a nervous system response (not just “bad communication”)

- Why your anxious attachment thrives on overexplaining (and how to gently stop)

- The difference between clarifying vs. oversharing

- Simple, real-world tools to feel heard without feeling like you’re doing a TED Talk at your boyfriend 🚩

If you’re ready to stop feeling like you need a PowerPoint presentation to get your needs met, you’re in the right place. 😌✨

🔥Click here to grab the Relationship Glow-up Guide! 🔥

💖JOIN THE HEALING GIRL GANG!💖

🔥CONFIDENCE CODE 💕

FOLLOW CLARE ON Instagram, TikTok or YouTube

WORK WITH ME: VIP 1:1 Session

  continue reading

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