Episode 28: Earning Capacity! I Have Been A Stay At Home Parent, How Am I Going To Support Myself?

Our Guest:

John May

John May has worked as a vocational rehabilitation counselor since 1993. He has a Master’s degree program in Rehabilitation Counseling. As a Fellow of the American Board of Vocational Experts, John May has worked as a vocational expert since 2005. He has testified as a forensic vocational expert in litigation and hearings in several states.

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Summary

In this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter interviews John May, a vocational rehabilitation counselor, about the role of vocational forensics in divorce. They discuss how understanding earning capacity and employability can empower individuals going through divorce, especially those who have been out of the workforce. John shares insights on balancing childcare responsibilities with career opportunities and provides real-life success stories of clients who have benefited from vocational counseling. The conversation emphasizes the importance of viewing vocational evaluations as a means of empowerment rather than punishment, ultimately guiding individuals towards a more amicable divorce resolution.

Takeaways

• Vocational forensics can provide clarity in divorce proceedings.
• Understanding earning capacity is crucial for both spouses.
• Employability and placeability are key concepts in vocational assessments.
• Childcare responsibilities can complicate career reentry.
• Vocational counseling can empower individuals to upskill.
• Fear of returning to work is common but can be addressed.
• Skills developed at home are valuable in the job market.
• Mediation can be enhanced with vocational evaluations.
• Real-life success stories illustrate the benefits of vocational support.
• Divorce can lead to new opportunities for personal growth.

Titles

Empowering Divorce Through Vocational Support

Navigating Earning Capacity in Divorce

Sound Bites

"Divorce doesn't have to be a battleground."

"Fear of returning to work is common."

"You can build a life that works."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Vocational Forensics

03:36 New Chapter

03:38 Understanding Earning Capacity in Divorce

03:41 New Chapter 2

07:11 Employability vs. Placeability

11:05 Navigating Childcare and Employment

14:15 Empowerment Through Vocational Counseling

17:13 Real-Life Success Stories

24:50 Overcoming Barriers to Employment

28:25 Conclusion and Key Takeaways

32:44 Introduction to Amicable Divorce

34:13 Resources for Support and Growth

Keywords

amicable divorce, vocational forensics, earning capacity, employability, divorce coaching, financial fear, mediation, vocational counseling, upskilling, divorce resolution

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