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Setting Them Free: Parenting Adult Children with Love and Logic

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Dr. Charles Fay, CEO of Love and Logic, delivers a masterclass in parenting adult children with the perfect balance of love and accountability. Drawing from decades of experience and his family legacy in developing the Love and Logic approach, Dr. Fay shares transformative strategies that shift our focus from control to influence.
At the heart of his message lies a powerful truth: "We can never consistently work harder on somebody else's life than they are." This principle challenges us to examine our enabling behaviors masked as care and instead embrace practices that foster true independence. Through relatable scenarios—like the adult child who needs $17,000 for a truck payment or returns home to play video games on the couch—Dr. Fay demonstrates his practical five-step approach that maintains connection while respecting autonomy.
The approach begins with genuine empathy, followed by the crucial question: "What do you think you're going to do?" This simple query hands responsibility back to adult children while communicating your belief in their capability.
When establishing boundaries with adult children living at home, Dr. Fay suggests focusing on two fundamentals: ensuring their situation doesn't interfere with their growth, and making sure their presence remains enjoyable for everyone. These boundaries, communicated with empathy and firm

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Chapters

1. Setting Them Free: Parenting Adult Children with Love and Logic (00:00:00)

2. Setting the Foundation for Independence (00:00:03)

3. Introduction to Love and Logic Approach (00:03:39)

4. Dr. Charles Fay's Background and Philosophy (00:09:39)

5. The Five Steps of Love and Logic (00:15:17)

6. [Ad] Higher Listenings: Joy for Educators (00:17:10)

7. (Cont.) The Five Steps of Love and Logic (00:17:48)

8. When to Step Back and Let Them Grow (00:27:34)

9. Handling Adult Children Living at Home (00:32:19)

10. [Ad] Freedom to Learn (00:38:00)

11. (Cont.) Handling Adult Children Living at Home (00:38:42)

12. Addressing Relationship Challenges with Adult Kids (00:43:32)

13. Final Takeaways and Practical Wisdom (00:50:32)

103 episodes

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Dr. Charles Fay, CEO of Love and Logic, delivers a masterclass in parenting adult children with the perfect balance of love and accountability. Drawing from decades of experience and his family legacy in developing the Love and Logic approach, Dr. Fay shares transformative strategies that shift our focus from control to influence.
At the heart of his message lies a powerful truth: "We can never consistently work harder on somebody else's life than they are." This principle challenges us to examine our enabling behaviors masked as care and instead embrace practices that foster true independence. Through relatable scenarios—like the adult child who needs $17,000 for a truck payment or returns home to play video games on the couch—Dr. Fay demonstrates his practical five-step approach that maintains connection while respecting autonomy.
The approach begins with genuine empathy, followed by the crucial question: "What do you think you're going to do?" This simple query hands responsibility back to adult children while communicating your belief in their capability.
When establishing boundaries with adult children living at home, Dr. Fay suggests focusing on two fundamentals: ensuring their situation doesn't interfere with their growth, and making sure their presence remains enjoyable for everyone. These boundaries, communicated with empathy and firm

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A new podcast from Top Hat delivering ideas, relief, and joy to the future of teaching.
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Championing school choice, defending parental rights, & exposing the harm caused by unions
Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Support the show

The information provided by Bite Your Tongue The Podcast (“we,” “us,” or “our'') or biteyourtonguepodcast.com (the “Site” and our mobile application is for general informational purposes only. All information on the SITE or on the Podcast is for general informational purposes only. All information on the SITE and PODCAST is provided in good faith, however we make no representation or warranty of any kind, expressed, or implied regarding the accuracy, adequacy, validity, reliability, availability or completeness of any information the SITE or the PODCAST. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCE SHALL WE HAVE ANY LIABILITY TO YOU FOR ANY LOSS OR DAMAGE OF ANY KIND INCURRED AS A RESULT OF THE USE OF THE INFORMATION PROVIDED BY GUESTS ON OUR PODCAST. YOUR USE OF THE SITE AND PODCAST AND YOUR RELIANCE ON ANY INFORMATION FROM THE SITE OUR PODCAST IS SOLELY AT YOUR OWN RISK.

The site and podcast do not contain any medical/health information or advice. The medical/health information is for general information and educational purposes only and is not suitable for professional device. Accordingly, before taking any actions based upon such information, we encourage you to consult with the appropriate professionals. We do not provide any kind of medical/health advice. THE USE OF OR RELIANCE OF ANY INFORMATION CONTAINED ON THE SITE OR PODCAST IS SOLELY AT YOUR OWN RISK.

  continue reading

Chapters

1. Setting Them Free: Parenting Adult Children with Love and Logic (00:00:00)

2. Setting the Foundation for Independence (00:00:03)

3. Introduction to Love and Logic Approach (00:03:39)

4. Dr. Charles Fay's Background and Philosophy (00:09:39)

5. The Five Steps of Love and Logic (00:15:17)

6. [Ad] Higher Listenings: Joy for Educators (00:17:10)

7. (Cont.) The Five Steps of Love and Logic (00:17:48)

8. When to Step Back and Let Them Grow (00:27:34)

9. Handling Adult Children Living at Home (00:32:19)

10. [Ad] Freedom to Learn (00:38:00)

11. (Cont.) Handling Adult Children Living at Home (00:38:42)

12. Addressing Relationship Challenges with Adult Kids (00:43:32)

13. Final Takeaways and Practical Wisdom (00:50:32)

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