As men and young people, we carry a lot of load on our shoulders. Men often feel that they need to be self-reliant and provide for their loved ones, so it is not appropriate to express their emotions. This behaviour can be reinforced in the stereotype of the heroic male, so often represented in popular culture. Fearless, resourceful, stoic and usually facing adversity alone, these characters tell us a lot about what is considered to be ideal male behaviour within our society. Even as believers, we have not taught well to embrace vulnerability and normalize seek support or help. Some people might say it is not biblical to do so.
We aim to have a conversation to discuss how young men need to normalize accepting help and practical support. We want to be able to discuss why men may feel uncomfortable talking to someone about some feelings or issues they might be dealing with, leading to frustration in relationships when they cannot express their needs, fears and grief.