Have you ever been told to “submit to your husband”? This episode of Brainwash Be Gone unpacks one of the most damaging and normalized teachings from high-control, high demand religions and reveals how it impacts women’s autonomy, self-worth, and relationships even after leaving religion.
If you’ve ever struggled with people-pleasing, self-censorship, or guilt when standing up for yourself, this episode helps you understand where that conditioning came from—and how to release it. Clare explores how this rule strips women of adulthood, reinforces unhealthy power structures, and creates cycles of emotional and spiritual harm that extend across generations.
Listeners will learn:
- How the “submit to your husband” doctrine undermines personal sovereignty and reinforces control.
- Why rejecting hierarchical conditioning restores emotional balance and mutual respect.
- The empowering mindset shift that helps you reclaim authority over your life and relationships.
Press play to uncover the freedom that comes when you step into your full self-authority and let go of learned submission for good.
Tags: Religious trauma, spiritual abuse, deconstruction, exmormon, exmo, exvangelical, recovering catholic, excatholic, former jehovah's witness, women's empowerment, feminism, leaving religion, self-worth, high demand religions, high control groups, high control religion, cult, cult recovery, brainwashed, high demand religion, spiritual trauma, church abuse.
Writer and Host: Clare Corado
Voiceover Talent: Jason Kirkover

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