Why Painful Patterns Keep Running Your Life
Coffee With Hilary and Les from State of Mind Hypnosis and Training Centre
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We explore why painful patterns persist and how tiny choice points let us pause, reinterpret, and respond in fair, healthy ways. From childhood conditioning to anger as a fairness signal, we share tools to break autopilot and install better habits.
• habits as automatic programs that free attention
• thoughts as habits and negative loops
• emotions as messages rather than identity
• anger meaning fairness and how to restore it
• childhood experiences shaping core beliefs
• spotting the micro choice point before reaction
• reframing with “there is anger” language
• externalizing feelings and unpacking layers
• shifting interpretations to change behavior
• practical lines to make moments fair
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Chapters
1. Warming Up And Framing The Topic (00:00:00)
2. Why We Repeat Painful Patterns (00:00:51)
3. Habits, Conditioning, And The Deep Mind (00:02:40)
4. Practice, Attention, And Automatic Behavior (00:07:50)
5. Thoughts As Habits And Negativity Loops (00:13:45)
6. Fight, Flight, Freeze And Learned Safety (00:19:40)
7. The Anger Pattern And Power Dynamics (00:24:50)
8. The Tiny Choice Point Before Reaction (00:31:20)
9. Emotions As Messages, Not Identity (00:37:20)
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