What if the secret to a peaceful co-parenting relationship was as simple as assuming positive intent? Join me, Kori, as I welcome my dear friend Jill, a seasoned divorce coach, to explore the emotional and logistical intricacies of navigating divorce and co-parenting. Jill shares her journey from law school to becoming a specialist in divorce and child custody cases, highlighting the importance of differentiating between the emotional breakup, the legal divorce process, and the parenting relationship. We unpack the common obstacles parents face during divorce, stressing the need to address each aspect separately to reduce conflict and foster healthier co-parenting dynamics. Reflecting on personal experiences, we underscore the significance of shielding children from parental disputes to safeguard their well-being.

In our discussion, we examine the complexities of co-parenting post-divorce, particularly the negative impact of speaking ill about the other parent in front of the children. We stress the importance of maintaining communication focused on the kids to avoid unnecessary conflicts and share insights into navigating life as a single parent. By embracing vulnerability and honesty, we aim to model open communication for our children, teaching them that it’s okay to not have all the answers and encouraging them to engage in open dialogue. We also tackle the challenges of co-parenting during the holiday season, highlighting the importance of being child-centered and creating new traditions that provide a stable environment for the kids.

Listen in as we emphasize the value of assuming positive intent in co-parenting relationships and interactions with children. Jill and I introduce a practical tool, "API: Assume Positive Intent," encouraging listeners to pause and consider the motivations behind others’ actions, especially during emotional times. We discuss strategies for addressing children’s complaints about the other parent and the dynamics of relationships with stepparents, advocating for children’s autonomy in maintaining these bonds. By focusing on effective communication and mutual respect, we hope to guide families in navigating the complexities of co-parenting with grace and patience, ensuring the happiness and well-being of the children remain a priority.

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Kori Lauritsen

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