Avoiders are committed to their independence, fear of rejection, and the belief that their must authentic selves would never be fully valued or loved. They uphold a shell of their identity in order to protect themselves from judgment and avoid their discomfort with their full truth, not from a place of arrogance but from fear of rejection. Avoiders have a difficult time with emotional intimacy and typically feel overwhelmed when relationships get too close or when lots of emotional expression takes place. When this happens Avoiders will shut down, withdraw or avoid any perceived conflict in hopes of feeling safe. Especially if their partner is highly emotionally reactive. In this episode you will learn about the Avoider Love Loop and how to transform it. Take the FREE Love Loop assessment, DM, “QUIZ” to @captivatingcourtship on Instagram Join The Captivating Courtship Code community Https://www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching FREE 6 Step Courtship Loop Code Roadmap https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/courtshiplooproadmap FREE Courtship Loops download ⁠https://captivatingcourtship.ck.page/56abf83e10⁠