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Pamela Henry, author of 'Soul Custody: Sparing Children from Divorce,' discusses the emotional and psychological impacts of divorce on both parents and children, the regrets many individuals face post-divorce, and the importance of understanding the deeper issues that lead to marital breakdowns. Pamela shares her personal journey, insights from her book, and strategies for couples contemplating divorce, emphasizing the need for empathy and the potential for healing through faith and self-reflection.

Takeaways

• 30% of people regret divorcing, indicating a need for deeper reflection before making such a decision.
• The concept of 'Soul Custody' emphasizes the importance of taking care of one's own emotional and spiritual well-being during and after divorce.
• Divorce can often stem from escapist tendencies, where individuals seek to avoid unresolved issues from their past.
• Common regrets after divorce often revolve around financial stress and loneliness rather than the impact on children.
• The emotional scars from divorce can have lasting effects on children, leading to feelings of sadness and abandonment.
• Focusing on the well-being of children can help couples navigate their own issues and potentially strengthen their marriage.
• Forgiveness plays a crucial role in healing after divorce, both for oneself and for others involved.
• Time is a critical factor in making decisions about divorce; giving oneself time can lead to better outcomes.
• Understanding the child's perspective in a divorce can foster empathy and better decision-making for parents.
• Seeking help and guidance, whether through therapy or spiritual support, can aid in healing and personal growth.

How to find Pamela Henry
www.soul-custody.com
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