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Ever feel like saying no to your kids instantly makes you the “worst mom ever”? You’re not alone, mama. That mom guilt is real — but it doesn’t have to control how you parent or how you handle money.

In this episode, I’m breaking down why we feel guilty when we tell our kids no, the sneaky lies that fuel overspending, and how to shift from guilt to confidence when it comes to parenting and money.

You’ll learn:

  • The 3 biggest reasons moms feel guilty saying no (and how to spot them in your own life)

  • Why “just making it work” is a dangerous money lie that keeps families in debt

  • How saying no now actually models delayed gratification and financial confidence for your kids

  • Practical ways to decide your “no” ahead of time (without caving at Target or the trampoline park)

  • Simple strategies to include your kids in money decisions (at an age-appropriate level)

  • How to align your family spending with your true values — so no feels freeing, not shameful

Saying no isn’t rejection — it’s redirection toward what matters most to your family. By the end of this episode, you’ll feel more equipped to stand firm in your decisions, spend with intention, and break free from that mom guilt spiral.

👉 Want support from other moms learning to parent and budget with confidence?

Join us inside The Alliance Coaching Membership, where we say yes to purpose and no to pressure. Live coaching, monthly budget planning, and a community of families walking this same countercultural path.
👉 jewlzthebudgetnerd.com/membership

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