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Does anybody here know how many times I had to watch Funny Lady?

The 1997 film In & Out, directed by Frank Oz (yes, the one who voices Miss Piggy) and starring Kevin Kline, Joan Cusack, and Tom Selleck, has mostly been forgotten–but this feel-good comedy had a lasting impact on Emily. When she saw it in the theater as an undiagnosed neurodivergent 18-year-old, she was confused as all hell when Kline’s character comes out at his wedding (to a woman) about three-quarters of the way into the movie, despite his protestations of heterosexuality up until that point.

Baby Emily understood something that may have been unclear to the intended audience: that the stereotypical characteristics of “masculinity” have approximately jack-all to do with sexual orientation. Although Oz created a lovely story about acceptance (and one that was likely an important stepping stone for straight Americans to embrace LGBTQ rights), the reliance on stereotypes for humor makes the movie a cringey, if well-meaning, time capsule.

Throw on your headphones and take a listen–and don’t compliment the fabulous window treatment.

Mentioned in this episode:

“In & Out” Is a Great Gay Movie and Deserves as Much Love as “The Birdcage”

Classic Film Review: “In & Out” turns 25, old enough to be a “classic”

Tango Men, Choreography by Ezequiel Sanucci

This episode was edited by Resonate Recordings.

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