“Why is everything spinning when there’s still no diagnosis?”
In Episode 288, we walked with Fran through locked doors, false accusations, ER ping-pong—and the ache of holding Power of Attorney that seems powerless without clarity.

Lizette began with the focusing prompt she uses in every session:
“In six months from today, what would need to happen for you to say your caregiving journey is easier—keeping your health and your relationships in mind?”
Fran’s answer was simple and brave: clarity for Mom and calm for me.

Here’s where they landed:

1) Capacity vs. Competency
Adults are allowed to make unsafe choices until someone documents impaired capacity. Competency is a legal status set by a court. That’s why APS sometimes can’t act and why many families only gain traction after a hospital evaluation—or by pursuing guardianship. You’re not failing; you’re navigating the rules.

2) Name what you can (and can’t) control
You can ensure food, meds, bills, and safe transport. You cannot force cooperation without legal authority. That isn’t a moral failure—it’s accepting reality so you can act wisely. God is not a God of confusion; order begins with honest boundaries.

3) Document patterns
Write down delusions, unsafe choices, ER visits, elopement attempts. Patterns open doors for assessment and guide next steps. This is Therapeutic Truth-Telling™ applied: we face the truth kindly so we can steward well.

4) One act of grace—for you
This is a dimmer-switch season, not a light-switch fix. Choose one self-kindness today (a walk, a psalm, a call to a trusted friend). The Think Different Dementia Method™ and the Contented Caregiver Blueprint™ exist so you don’t white-knuckle alone.

If this is your story, come closer. There’s a calm, biblical path forward—step by step, with community and prayer.

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