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#1241 - Dandelions & Orchids

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Some kids thrive anywhere. Others need more care to flourish. In this episode, Justin and Kylie Coulson explore the powerful metaphor of “dandelion and orchid” children—an idea shared by clinical psychologist Dr. Jamie Northam. They discuss how different temperaments impact mental health, why parenting must be tailored, and how to know when your child might need additional support.


KEY POINTS:

  • Dandelions are resilient children who thrive in most environments; orchids are more sensitive and require specific conditions to grow well.

  • Evidence-based parenting strategies should be adaptable—not one-size-fits-all.

  • Be cautious of advice from social media; always ask: Is there evidence? Are there clear steps? Does this suit my child?

  • The “Three D’s” of mental health concern: Distress, Dysfunction, and Deviation from developmental norms.

  • Good parenting meets a child where they are—not where we wish they were.


QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:
“Parenting isn’t one-size-fits-all—what works for one child may fail completely with another.”


RESOURCES MENTIONED:

  • Full interview with Dr. Jamie Northam (airing Saturday)

  • happyfamilies.com.au for evidence-based parenting resources


ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:

  1. Reflect on your child’s temperament—are they a dandelion or an orchid?

  2. Before following parenting advice, check if it's evidence-based, clearly explained, and appropriate for your child.

  3. Watch for the “Three D’s”: distress, dysfunction, and deviation from expected development.

  4. Adapt your parenting approach based on each child’s needs—not just what worked in the past.

  5. If concerned, seek professional support early—mental health matters at every age.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Manage episode 480985189 series 1230931
Content provided by Dr Justin Coulson. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Dr Justin Coulson or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://staging.podcastplayer.com/legal.

Some kids thrive anywhere. Others need more care to flourish. In this episode, Justin and Kylie Coulson explore the powerful metaphor of “dandelion and orchid” children—an idea shared by clinical psychologist Dr. Jamie Northam. They discuss how different temperaments impact mental health, why parenting must be tailored, and how to know when your child might need additional support.


KEY POINTS:

  • Dandelions are resilient children who thrive in most environments; orchids are more sensitive and require specific conditions to grow well.

  • Evidence-based parenting strategies should be adaptable—not one-size-fits-all.

  • Be cautious of advice from social media; always ask: Is there evidence? Are there clear steps? Does this suit my child?

  • The “Three D’s” of mental health concern: Distress, Dysfunction, and Deviation from developmental norms.

  • Good parenting meets a child where they are—not where we wish they were.


QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:
“Parenting isn’t one-size-fits-all—what works for one child may fail completely with another.”


RESOURCES MENTIONED:

  • Full interview with Dr. Jamie Northam (airing Saturday)

  • happyfamilies.com.au for evidence-based parenting resources


ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:

  1. Reflect on your child’s temperament—are they a dandelion or an orchid?

  2. Before following parenting advice, check if it's evidence-based, clearly explained, and appropriate for your child.

  3. Watch for the “Three D’s”: distress, dysfunction, and deviation from expected development.

  4. Adapt your parenting approach based on each child’s needs—not just what worked in the past.

  5. If concerned, seek professional support early—mental health matters at every age.

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

  continue reading

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