What we say matters. Our words are important and when well-intended, they can make a tremendous difference to those who will listen. But timing is also crucial. There is a time to provide an opinion, and a time to let it go. Difficult moments, emotional days, and stressful situations may not be the best time to share our words of wisdom. Weddings are one example. School days are sometimes those things every day, and so we need to be very careful to protect the trust that we have developed.

In this episode of the Educators Among Us podcast, host Scott Barron, Chief Reinvention Officer with School Growth, talks openly about using our words wisely, with timing, and with an understanding of the relative situation we are in. The importance of emotional intelligence in navigating the complexities of school environments is crucial to the transformative power of educators. He emphasizes the need for trust, effective communication, and the significance of timing in interactions. Scott also encourages educators to reflect on their emotional awareness and the impact of their words, highlighting the responsibility they hold in shaping the lives of their students.

Words matter. When we use them matters. When we stay “emotionally smart”, we’ll have a better understanding to effectively use our words wisely in those meaningful moments.

Takeaways

-Educators have a transformative impact on individuals and communities.

-The role of educators comes with a higher standard of accountability.

-Emotional intelligence is crucial in educational settings.

-Words can have lasting effects, especially in sensitive situations.

-Trust is essential for a healthy school culture.

-Timing is critical in communication and feedback.

-Effective educators must read the room and context.

-There is a balance between standing firm and yielding for the greater good.

-Self-reflection is important for personal and professional growth.

-Educators should strive to stay emotionally smart in their interactions.

Chapters

00:43 Introduction

3:08 Persuasion to Change

4:03 Memories of Wedding Days

5:58 The Delicate Fuel

8:29 Getting the Timing Right

11:04 Staying Emotionally Smart

12:15 Coaching Question

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