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Ever felt that instant spark with someone, only to realize later your body knew better? In today’s episode, we talk about what real safety feels like in relationships and why so many of us confuse excitement for connection. Together, we break down the cues your nervous system has been trying to send, the childhood wiring that shapes your boundaries, and how to tell the difference between feeling seen and being stuck. This one’s equal parts truth, laughter, and gentle reality check. Hit play before your intuition rolls its eyes and says, “Told you so.”
Episode Resource:
Evolve Safe Relationship Assessment - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1HBjn1a1QEFQWSYLtFmSdwNDHMb6ULYkf/view?usp=drive_link
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Show notes:
(2:20) The role of group coaching
(5:20) Defining safety and regulation
(8:51) Balancing authenticity and attraction
(14:50) The science of safety and connection
(17:44) Childhood conditioning and consent
(24:32) How to stop overriding danger signals
(29:47) Steps when a relationship feels unsafe
(33:45) The power of repair and maturity
(35:49) Learning safety as a lifelong skill
(36:28) Outro
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(Stay tuned for this coming Thursday’s episode!)

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