Feel like you’re being overlooked? That hidden season isn’t rejection—it’s protection. God builds you in private to shape your character, root your identity, and prepare you for what’s coming. Sometimes the unwanted attention we get—especially from men—is connected to the version of us we haven’t fully surrendered yet. We attract who we are, not just what we want. And while some things are out of our control, you can still set firm boundaries in love to protect what God’s building in you.