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Smashing Self-Limiting Beliefs with Amber Fuhriman
Manage episode 487902480 series 2792815
What if the biggest obstacles to your success aren't external challenges but the stories you tell yourself? In this revealing conversation with attorney, success architect, and podcast host Amber Fuhriman, we unpack the limiting beliefs that keep entrepreneurs trapped in cycles of frustration and self-doubt.
Amber shatters the common myth that successful entrepreneurs have some secret knowledge or inherent advantage. "Nobody knows what they're doing," she explains. "We act with uncertainty, evaluate our decisions, figure out what worked, and figure out what didn't." This refreshing honesty cuts through the carefully curated social media personas of success, particularly what Amber calls the "Lambo, plane, and Rolex watch" images that trigger more skepticism than inspiration among seasoned entrepreneurs.
The conversation takes a surprising turn when discussing high-stress environments. Rather than pushing harder, Amber advocates for intentionally slowing down—scheduling "breathe time" throughout the day and working in focused 45-60 minute blocks. This counterintuitive approach has transformed her productivity and mental clarity, especially after discovering the power of breathwork when traditional meditation failed her.
We explore the fascinating connection between childhood experiences and entrepreneurial drive, with Amber explaining how our earliest programming shapes our definition of success. "Money equaled success, success equaled happiness," she shares about her own journey, "and that meant all the pain I felt in my life was going to disappear." The revelation came when success didn't deliver the promised emotional fulfillment, leading to anxiety attacks and a profound reexamination of her goals.
Perhaps most valuable is Amber's advice for entrepreneurs feeling stuck: "The antidote to feeling stuck is taking a step, whether you think it's in the correct direction or not." She challenges listeners to examine whether they have data supporting their perceived plateau or if they're simply justifying inaction, noting that "the distance between deciding and action will decide who makes the most money."
Whether you're just starting your entrepreneurial journey or looking to break through to your next level of success, this conversation provides the mindset tools to recognize and overcome the internal barriers holding you back. Connect with Amber at successdevelopmentsolutions.com or [email protected] to continue your journey toward authentic success.
How to connect with Amber?
Email: [email protected]
Website: https://fuhrimanlaw.com/
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-your-bullsh-t-box/id1475272089
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@amberfuhriman668
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2320358498239185
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amberraefuhriman/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fuhrimanlaw/
Twitter: https://x.com/FuhrimanLaw
Chapters
1. Smashing Self-Limiting Beliefs with Amber Fuhriman (00:00:00)
2. Introduction to Amber Furman (00:01:22)
3. Common Limiting Beliefs of Entrepreneurs (00:03:31)
4. Navigating High-Stress Environments (00:08:36)
5. Substance Abuse and Intentional Living (00:13:57)
6. Redefining Success Beyond External Goals (00:22:14)
7. The Connection Between Trauma and Entrepreneurship (00:30:19)
8. Breaking Through Business Plateaus (00:39:13)
9. Final Thoughts and Fire Round (00:45:58)
275 episodes
Manage episode 487902480 series 2792815
What if the biggest obstacles to your success aren't external challenges but the stories you tell yourself? In this revealing conversation with attorney, success architect, and podcast host Amber Fuhriman, we unpack the limiting beliefs that keep entrepreneurs trapped in cycles of frustration and self-doubt.
Amber shatters the common myth that successful entrepreneurs have some secret knowledge or inherent advantage. "Nobody knows what they're doing," she explains. "We act with uncertainty, evaluate our decisions, figure out what worked, and figure out what didn't." This refreshing honesty cuts through the carefully curated social media personas of success, particularly what Amber calls the "Lambo, plane, and Rolex watch" images that trigger more skepticism than inspiration among seasoned entrepreneurs.
The conversation takes a surprising turn when discussing high-stress environments. Rather than pushing harder, Amber advocates for intentionally slowing down—scheduling "breathe time" throughout the day and working in focused 45-60 minute blocks. This counterintuitive approach has transformed her productivity and mental clarity, especially after discovering the power of breathwork when traditional meditation failed her.
We explore the fascinating connection between childhood experiences and entrepreneurial drive, with Amber explaining how our earliest programming shapes our definition of success. "Money equaled success, success equaled happiness," she shares about her own journey, "and that meant all the pain I felt in my life was going to disappear." The revelation came when success didn't deliver the promised emotional fulfillment, leading to anxiety attacks and a profound reexamination of her goals.
Perhaps most valuable is Amber's advice for entrepreneurs feeling stuck: "The antidote to feeling stuck is taking a step, whether you think it's in the correct direction or not." She challenges listeners to examine whether they have data supporting their perceived plateau or if they're simply justifying inaction, noting that "the distance between deciding and action will decide who makes the most money."
Whether you're just starting your entrepreneurial journey or looking to break through to your next level of success, this conversation provides the mindset tools to recognize and overcome the internal barriers holding you back. Connect with Amber at successdevelopmentsolutions.com or [email protected] to continue your journey toward authentic success.
How to connect with Amber?
Email: [email protected]
Website: https://fuhrimanlaw.com/
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/break-your-bullsh-t-box/id1475272089
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@amberfuhriman668
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2320358498239185
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amberraefuhriman/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fuhrimanlaw/
Twitter: https://x.com/FuhrimanLaw
Chapters
1. Smashing Self-Limiting Beliefs with Amber Fuhriman (00:00:00)
2. Introduction to Amber Furman (00:01:22)
3. Common Limiting Beliefs of Entrepreneurs (00:03:31)
4. Navigating High-Stress Environments (00:08:36)
5. Substance Abuse and Intentional Living (00:13:57)
6. Redefining Success Beyond External Goals (00:22:14)
7. The Connection Between Trauma and Entrepreneurship (00:30:19)
8. Breaking Through Business Plateaus (00:39:13)
9. Final Thoughts and Fire Round (00:45:58)
275 episodes
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