In this episode of For Better or for Court: Family Law in New Jersey, certified matrimonial law attorney Alix Claps of Heymann and Fletcher discusses how custody and parenting time decisions are made in New Jersey family courts. Drawing on her extensive experience, Alix breaks down the legal distinctions between legal custody and parenting time, explains how courts evaluate the best interests of children, and shares practical guidance for parents navigating custody disputes.

Whether parents are married or unmarried, Alix provides insight into common misconceptions, the role of the child’s voice in custody determinations, and the factors that truly matter when crafting parenting time arrangements.

01:20 – Legal Custody vs. Physical Custody
03:15 – Court Considerations
05:40 – Custody Agreements Outside of Court
07:10 – Parenting Time Arrangements
09:45 – Gender Myths in Custody
11:50 – Requests for Full Custody
13:30 – Impact of Schools and Activities
16:15 – Considering the Child’s Wishes
18:40 – Common Misconceptions
21:00 – Advice for Parents
About the Show

For Better or For Court: Family Law in New Jersey is a podcast hosted by family law attorney Alix Claps of Heymann & Fletcher. Each episode offers practical legal guidance on divorce, custody, and family law matters in New Jersey. Designed for individuals navigating difficult decisions, the show breaks down complex legal processes into clear, compassionate advice—helping you feel informed, prepared, and supported every step of the way.