People-pleasing often gets labeled as a flaw, but it can also be a strength when you do it the right way. Join me as I unpack why so many of us fall into unhealthy patterns, how it ties back to self-worth, and what it really takes to flip the script. You’ll learn how to set boundaries in six key areas of your life; work, schedule, environment, people, things, and adventures, so you can show up for others without losing yourself. I’ll share how to protect your time, your energy, and your joy while still caring deeply for the people around you. This is about creating clarity, valuing yourself, and building the kind of balance that actually lasts.

Key Takeaways:

• Why people pleasing is really a self-worth issue and how to flip it into empowerment
• The “and vs. or” mindset shift that makes people pleasing healthy instead of harmful
• Six categories to set boundaries around: work, schedule, environment, people, things, and adventures
• How to clearly communicate boundaries without guilt or apology
• The hardest part of boundaries and why clarity is the ultimate kindness

In 2008, I blew up my life in spectacular fashion. I left a rule-based religious group, divorced, and lost the few people I had leaned on. I thought greener grasses awaited me. I was wrong. Despite building a wildly successful digital marketing business and growing my family to four kids, I felt nothing but dread each morning.

Then came what I now call Epiphany Town. It was that electric moment when I stopped defining my life by what happened to me and began building on purpose. That phase lit me up in a way I had never felt. Now I devote every ounce of my energy to guiding others through their own version of Epiphany Town. I help them forgive their past, let go of self-sabotaging stories, and leap into a life that is meaningful and deeply fulfilling.

I believe each of us has a story to tell, a gift to offer, and a life worth waking up for. Whether your goal is to impact one person or a million, I am here to help you see your place, claim your voice, and live your life on your terms.

https://rebeccamountain.ca/

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