When a man senses he might be losing you, his behavior shifts—and not always in a healthy way. Sometimes, it looks like extra attention and affection, but other times, it turns into jealousy or control.
In this podcast, Sascha Haert breaks down six key signs that he’s acting out of fear, not love—and why that’s a red flag in your relationship.
💡 Watch for these behaviors:
🚩 He Becomes Overly Attentive – Grand gestures, constant texting, and sudden affection… but is it love, or is it fear?
🚩 He Gets Jealous Over Small Things – If he’s reacting to every interaction like it’s a threat, it’s more about his insecurity than reality.
🚩 He Tries to Control the Relationship – Keeping tabs on where you are, who you’re with, or subtly limiting your independence? That’s not love—it’s fear in disguise.
🚩 He Overcompensates in Arguments – If he agrees to everything just to avoid conflict, it’s not healthy—it’s avoidance.
🚩 He Starts Making Long-Term Plans – Suddenly talking about the future can be romantic, but if it feels rushed, it might be his way of clinging to the relationship.
🚩 He Becomes More Emotionally Vulnerable – Opening up is great, but if it happens out of nowhere, he might be using it as a way to keep you emotionally invested.
✨ Fear-based love isn’t real love. If you’re noticing these signs, take a step back and assess the relationship. A healthy connection is built on trust, consistency, and emotional security—not insecurity and fear of abandonment.

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