Ever feel like you’re the only one putting in the effort while he just coasts along?
If so, you might be dealing with a guy who’s doing the bare minimum. In this podcast, Sascha Haert breaks down the seven key signs that he’s not stepping up—and what that really means for your relationship.
💡 Here’s what to watch for:
🚩 He Never Plans Anything – If you’re always the one making plans while he just “goes with the flow,” that’s not chill—it’s lazy.
🚩 He’s Bad at Communication – Long gaps between texts? Vague, one-word responses? If he only reaches out when it’s convenient, he’s not prioritizing you.
🚩 He Doesn’t Compliment or Appreciate You – Feeling unseen or undervalued? If he can’t take a second to acknowledge your effort, he’s not worth yours.
🚩 He Doesn’t Introduce You to Anyone – If you’re not meeting his friends, family, or anyone important in his life, he’s keeping you at arm’s length.
🚩 He Avoids Difficult Conversations – Real connections require real communication. If he shuts down when things get tough, he’s not invested.
🚩 He Only Shows Up When It’s Convenient – If he disappears for days and only texts when he’s bored, you’re not a priority—you’re an option.
🚩 He Makes You Feel Like You’re Asking for Too Much – When you bring up concerns, does he make you feel unreasonable? That’s manipulation, not love.
✨ You deserve more than the bare minimum. Listen to this podcast to recognize the signs, set higher standards, and stop settling for less.

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