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Relational Bypassing - The Hidden Ways We Bypass Real Healing | Ep #193

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In this episode we'll discuss the concept of relational bypassing, a pattern where individuals avoid emotional pain in relationships, particularly after infidelity. This behavior can hinder intimacy and healing, so there is a real importance of emotional presence and truth in rebuilding the trust.

Key Takeaways:

  • Relational bypassing can kill intimacy in relationships.
  • Fixing without hearing leads to disconnection.
  • Emotional shortcutting delays healing.
  • What we resist stays stuck; what we feel can move.
  • Both partners in infidelity need to process their emotions.
  • Avoidance strategies prevent real connection.
  • Emotional presence is crucial for rebuilding trust.
  • Truth must come from a real place for healing.
  • Controlling the narrative can be a form of bypassing.
  • Choosing connection over comfort fosters intimacy.

More from me:

Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes and leave a review if your favorite podcast app has that ability.

For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit Andrea's website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/

© 2020 - 2025 Andrea Giles

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Manage episode 487197152 series 2883763
Content provided by Andrea Giles. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Andrea Giles or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://staging.podcastplayer.com/legal.

In this episode we'll discuss the concept of relational bypassing, a pattern where individuals avoid emotional pain in relationships, particularly after infidelity. This behavior can hinder intimacy and healing, so there is a real importance of emotional presence and truth in rebuilding the trust.

Key Takeaways:

  • Relational bypassing can kill intimacy in relationships.
  • Fixing without hearing leads to disconnection.
  • Emotional shortcutting delays healing.
  • What we resist stays stuck; what we feel can move.
  • Both partners in infidelity need to process their emotions.
  • Avoidance strategies prevent real connection.
  • Emotional presence is crucial for rebuilding trust.
  • Truth must come from a real place for healing.
  • Controlling the narrative can be a form of bypassing.
  • Choosing connection over comfort fosters intimacy.

More from me:

Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes and leave a review if your favorite podcast app has that ability.

For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit Andrea's website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/

© 2020 - 2025 Andrea Giles

  continue reading

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