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Q&A- Can I truly love myself and still want to look hotter? with Kyley and Eva
Manage episode 482677698 series 2774296
Can you truly love your body and still want to change it?
This week, we answer a listener question from someone who deeply loves herself… but also kinda wants to change it.
Does getting Botox or hitting the gym mean you’ve sold out your self-love? Is there room for both radical acceptance and the desire to feel even hotter?
We dig into vanity, desire, body politics, and why self-love doesn’t have to mean self-stagnation.
Re: body image:
Hi Eva and Kyley! I love your show and here’s my question: Can I truly love myself and still want to look hotter? Like, I do love myself. I’ve done a ton of inner work around body image, self-worth, and all that good stuff. But also… I still want to glow up. I want to feel sexier, maybe lose a little weight, and I think about getting botox… And sometimes I wonder—am I being vain? Or betraying the self-love I’ve worked so hard for? Does wanting to look better mean I don’t accept myself as I am? Or is it okay to want both—to radically love who I am and also still want to turn heads when I walk into a room? Help. I’m confused and also slightly overthinking this.
Thanks, love you both! Signed, Hot & Healing
Email your questions to [email protected] or DM us on instagram
Eva's instagram: @iamevaliao
Book a discovery call with Eva
Pocket Mentor(Friend)ship- Eva's Newest Offering!
Kyley's Instagram: @kyleycaldwell
219 episodes
Manage episode 482677698 series 2774296
Can you truly love your body and still want to change it?
This week, we answer a listener question from someone who deeply loves herself… but also kinda wants to change it.
Does getting Botox or hitting the gym mean you’ve sold out your self-love? Is there room for both radical acceptance and the desire to feel even hotter?
We dig into vanity, desire, body politics, and why self-love doesn’t have to mean self-stagnation.
Re: body image:
Hi Eva and Kyley! I love your show and here’s my question: Can I truly love myself and still want to look hotter? Like, I do love myself. I’ve done a ton of inner work around body image, self-worth, and all that good stuff. But also… I still want to glow up. I want to feel sexier, maybe lose a little weight, and I think about getting botox… And sometimes I wonder—am I being vain? Or betraying the self-love I’ve worked so hard for? Does wanting to look better mean I don’t accept myself as I am? Or is it okay to want both—to radically love who I am and also still want to turn heads when I walk into a room? Help. I’m confused and also slightly overthinking this.
Thanks, love you both! Signed, Hot & Healing
Email your questions to [email protected] or DM us on instagram
Eva's instagram: @iamevaliao
Book a discovery call with Eva
Pocket Mentor(Friend)ship- Eva's Newest Offering!
Kyley's Instagram: @kyleycaldwell
219 episodes
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