Why do so many queer people still struggle with self-acceptance—even after coming out? In this episode of Hot Air, we dive deep into internalized homophobia—what it is, how it shows up in our daily lives, and why it still impacts so many in the LGBTQ+ community.

We kick things off with a viral pop culture moment: a photo of 18 white, shirtless, hyper-masculine gay men that recently blew up on social media. The image sparked fierce debate about representation, body image, and the muscle gaze—and revealed just how deep internalized homophobia still runs in queer spaces.

From gay shame and toxic masculinity to body image issues and fear of being "too much," this conversation unpacks how society teaches us to reject ourselves—and how we can unlearn that. If you've ever judged yourself for being too femme, too loud, or not gay enough, this one's for you.

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