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As caregivers, we often operate from a place of urgency, love, and sheer exhaustion—and without realizing it, we start seeing the world through a very narrow lens. We make assumptions about what our partner needs, what we’re capable of, and what the future holds.

These assumptions feel true—but what if they’re not?

In this episode, I share a personal story that made me pause and ask a powerful question: What if I’m wrong? I explore how this simple shift in thinking can open up space, release guilt, and help you see your caregiving journey—and yourself—more clearly.

We’ll talk about why it’s so hard to question our perspective, what it’s costing us to be “right,” and how learning to lift the filter can change everything. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or certain there’s no other way, this episode offers a gentle but important invitation to see things differently.

Tune in to learn how asking one brave question can bring clarity, connection, and peace of mind—right in the middle of your caregiving life.

Top things you'll learn:

• Your perspective is shaped by a mental filter—and in caregiving, that filter can distort how you see yourself, your partner, and your situation.
• The assumptions you make often feel like facts, but they may not be true—and questioning them can lead to new insights.
• Asking “How might I be wrong?” is a powerful way to open up space for clarity, self-compassion, and better decision-making.
• When you’re exhausted, grieving, or overwhelmed, it’s important to recognize your judgment may be off—and give yourself grace.
• Letting go of the need to be right can reduce stress and create more connection in your caregiving relationships.

As a Resiliency Coach for people who are caregiving for their partner, I'm here to support YOU, the caregiver. Learn more about my work at www.coachmarika.com.