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A layoff can feel like a verdict. We treat it as a turning point. In this candid conversation, we unpack what it means to “fail forward” when the spotlight is brightest and the Sunday Scaries won’t quit. Shelby shares the raw aftermath of being laid off from a high-profile role and the unexpected freedom that came from choosing silence, setting boundaries, and designing a schedule that serves her. Belinda digs into the shame loop many leaders fall into, why scapegoating thrives in political environments, and how reframing misalignment can restore agency and momentum.
Two questions anchor the episode: Who can you trust, and what are you willing to tolerate? Whether you’re processing a layoff, questioning a misaligned role, or trying to end the Sunday Scaries, these strategies help you regain control of your time, your message, and your outcomes.
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Chapters
1. Framing Failure And Sunday Scaries (00:00:00)
2. Subscribe And Join The Community (00:00:42)
3. Shelby’s Layoff And Public Scrutiny (00:01:11)
4. Choosing Silence And Setting Boundaries (00:03:40)
5. From Public Service To Entrepreneurship (00:05:20)
6. Shame Cycles And Scapegoating (00:07:10)
7. Values, Tolerance, And Role Fit (00:10:40)
8. Boundaries, Influence, And Letting Go (00:13:20)
9. Strategy: Outcomes, Allies, Decisions (00:16:10)
10. Trust And Tolerance: The BLUF (00:18:20)
11. Reflection, Resources, And Closing (00:19:30)
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