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The Ben Franklin Effect: How to win anyone over (even your biggest enemies)
Manage episode 479490403 series 2842386
Show Notes:
"Nut-cutting time" is when extreme, drastic, or decisive action is required; a period, usually near the end of an endeavor, when pressure to succeed is most intense; crunch time.
Summary
In this conversation, Frank Cava and Ian Mathews explore the dynamics of asking for favors and the psychological principles behind it, particularly the Ben Franklin effect. They discuss how small requests can build relationships, influence, and trust in both personal and professional settings. The conversation highlights the importance of gratitude, follow-up, and genuine communication in fostering connections and achieving success.
Takeaways
- Asking for favors can strengthen relationships.
- The Ben Franklin effect shows that doing favors increases likability.
- Small requests can lead to significant influence.
- Gratitude and follow-up are crucial in favor exchanges.
- Handwritten notes can make a lasting impression.
- Social media can amplify the impact of asking for favors.
- Building influence requires strategic relationship management.
- Genuine communication fosters trust and collaboration.
- Navigating professional relationships involves mutual respect.
- The power of asking for advice can lead to unexpected opportunities.
Chapters
00:00 The Godfather: A Family Tradition
19:36 The Ben Franklin Effect in Relationships
24:40 Lessons from Moneyball: Asking for Favors
29:34 Building Relationships Through Favors
34:10 The Power of Handwritten Notes
39:00 Empowering Others in Business
44:01 The Importance of Genuine Requests
142 episodes
Manage episode 479490403 series 2842386
Show Notes:
"Nut-cutting time" is when extreme, drastic, or decisive action is required; a period, usually near the end of an endeavor, when pressure to succeed is most intense; crunch time.
Summary
In this conversation, Frank Cava and Ian Mathews explore the dynamics of asking for favors and the psychological principles behind it, particularly the Ben Franklin effect. They discuss how small requests can build relationships, influence, and trust in both personal and professional settings. The conversation highlights the importance of gratitude, follow-up, and genuine communication in fostering connections and achieving success.
Takeaways
- Asking for favors can strengthen relationships.
- The Ben Franklin effect shows that doing favors increases likability.
- Small requests can lead to significant influence.
- Gratitude and follow-up are crucial in favor exchanges.
- Handwritten notes can make a lasting impression.
- Social media can amplify the impact of asking for favors.
- Building influence requires strategic relationship management.
- Genuine communication fosters trust and collaboration.
- Navigating professional relationships involves mutual respect.
- The power of asking for advice can lead to unexpected opportunities.
Chapters
00:00 The Godfather: A Family Tradition
19:36 The Ben Franklin Effect in Relationships
24:40 Lessons from Moneyball: Asking for Favors
29:34 Building Relationships Through Favors
34:10 The Power of Handwritten Notes
39:00 Empowering Others in Business
44:01 The Importance of Genuine Requests
142 episodes
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