The Problem is The Solution: Better Results through Better Questions
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Thursday is the best day of the week. At least according to Jess, who had her perspective permanently shifted by a high school biology teacher's grocery store metaphor 25 years ago. But why do certain random moments stick with us so powerfully? How do offhand comments from adults shape children's entire worldviews?
This episode dives deep into how our perspectives form and evolve through seemingly minor interactions. We explore parenting moments where asking thoughtful questions reveals surprising truths—like when Lisa's five-year-old daughter claimed she had "no friends" but was actually struggling with the complexities of navigating different friendship dynamics. The power of a simple "tell me more" creates space for understanding that problem-solving never could.
The conversation takes a fascinating turn when Lisa unpacks her experience being repeatedly interrupted and cut off during professional meetings as the only female manager in her organization. We examine the double standards at play when well-intentioned advice like "limit yourself to two questions" would ultimately reinforce the very inequality it aims to address. The "likability trap," unconscious bias, and the exhausting mental calculations required to navigate predominantly male spaces reveal how workplace dynamics reflect broader societal patterns.
Whether you're navigating parenthood, leadership challenges, or simply trying to understand why certain days feel different than others, this episode offers thoughtful reflections on how our perspectives shape—and are shaped by—our daily interactions. Join us for an honest conversation about finding authenticity in a world that often encourages us to make ourselves smaller.
Tune in next week as we unpack the idea of belonging everywhere you go.
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Chapters
1. Introducing Jess and Lisa (00:00:00)
2. How Different Days Affect Your Week (00:01:26)
3. Why Thursday Is the Best Day (00:03:35)
4. The Power of Questions in Parenting (00:08:57)
5. Navigating Conference Season (00:17:14)
6. Workplace Dynamics and Gender Bias (00:27:00)
7. The Value of Being Authentic (00:40:41)
8. The Questioner's Dilemma (00:51:32)
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