This week, we’re joined by the insightful Seth Nelson, a Tampa-based family lawyer and host of the popular podcast How to Split a Toaster. Known for his creative solutions to tough divorce dilemmas, Seth brings his unique perspective to help you navigate the financial side of splitting up.

While advice from forensic accountants and financial planners is crucial, hearing from someone in the legal trenches adds a whole new dimension. Seth's top tip? Get clear on your priorities before negotiations start. Knowing what matters most to you—whether it's financial security, keeping the family home, or minimizing conflict—sets the foundation for successful tradeoffs.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• Why understanding your own finances is a game-changer
• The truth about support payments and whether you should aim for alimony
• How getting a job might impact your divorce dynamics
• The often-overlooked emotional costs of fighting with your ex
• Who should handle the financial legwork: you, your lawyer, or an expert

Seth shares his candid advice and explains why he tells clients he hopes they never get alimony. It’s a refreshing take that might just shift how you think about divorce planning.

Links You Need:

• Seth's family law practice: https://www.nlgfamilylaw.com
• His podcast How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships is found here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-split-a-toaster-a-divorce-podcast-about/id1527497405
• Follow him on Instagram and TikTok: @nlg_divorceandfamilylaw

Whether you're facing a divorce or just want to be prepared for life's curveballs, Seth’s advice will leave you feeling informed and empowered. Don't miss this episode!