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Ellen Dorian analyzes the movie "The Roses" as a case study for relationship decline, illustrating Make More Love's Hierarchy of Relationship Needs and Spiral of Decline models. She breaks down the film's plot, highlighting key disruptions that lead to the couple's downfall, and relates these to common relationship issues faced by high-performing individuals.
Part 1: Introduction and Movie Analysis
- Ellen introduces the episode's focus on "The Roses" as a relationship case study
- Explanation of why this movie is an ideal example for the Make More Love model
- Breakdown of the couple's initial connection and shared ambition
Part 2: Relationship Disruptions and Missed Opportunities
- Identification of five major disruptions in the Roses' relationship
- Analysis of how each disruption contributes to the spiral of decline
- Discussion of missed opportunities for intervention and repair
Part 3: Lessons and Application
- Relating the movie's themes to real-life relationship challenges
- Introduction of the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard tool
- Encouragement for listeners to assess their own relationships
Key Takeaways:
- Shared ambition can be both a strong foundation and a potential pitfall in relationships
- Major life events and role changes can significantly impact relationship dynamics
- Ignoring relationship issues and failing to seek help can lead to a spiral of decline
- Open communication and willingness to address problems are crucial for relationship health
Call to Action:
Ellen encourages listeners to take the Relationship Dynamics Scorecard quiz at MakeMoreLove.Show/Quiz
Or book a free Relationship Reset call at RelationshipResetCall.com.
Closing Thoughts:
Relationships require active maintenance and attention to thrive. Recognizing and addressing issues early can prevent the kind of decline depicted in "The Roses."
Support & Resources:
Ellen invites listeners to share their thoughts, either in the P3 Insider's Community or directly with her via email. Or, for one on one brainstorming on a specific situation, listeners can set up a time on Ellen's Calendar for a free Relationship Reset Call.
All links can be found below.
"Until next time, remember, 'What I want most in the world is for you to Make More Love With Your Wife and in Your Life'" - Ellen Dorian
Disclaimers:
The Roses is a 2025 feature film starring Benedict Cumberbatch and Olivia Colman, directed by Jay Roach, and distributed by Searchlight Pictures. All rights belong to the respective copyright holders. This episode offers commentary and analysis for educational and review purposes only.
The Make More Love show is for information and entertainment purposes only, and reflects the personal opinions and experiences of the host and guests. It is not a substitute for professional advice or guidance in specific situations.
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