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Episode 44: "Spousal Backseat Driving" - When Love Meets the Road

Ever pulled over mid-trip because of a driving argument? You're not alone. This episode dives into why couples clash behind the wheel - from following distance debates to passenger seat anxiety. Featuring real stories from listeners like Jenni (Chase Bank teller who admits to "coaching" her husband) and my own Vegas highway meltdown with Amy that taught us both valuable lessons about communication under pressure.

Learn the "Wiser Ironing" technique for reframing criticism, discover why backseat driving is really about control and trust, and get practical strategies for turning car conflicts into opportunities for better communication. Because spousal backseat driving isn't about driving - it's about how couples handle stress, safety concerns, and working as a team when confined in a small space together.

Key Takeaways: Turn criticism into "I feel" statements, acknowledge your partner's concerns even when disagreeing, use driving conflicts as practice for bigger life challenges, and remember you're both trying to reach the same destination safely.

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Chapters

1. Ep. 44 - Spousal Backseat Driving (00:00:00)

2. Welcome to Episode 44 - Spousal Backseat Driving (00:00:21)

3. My Story of Married Driving (00:00:56)

4. Example - "Defensive Driving" of a Different Kind (00:01:30)

5. Why Do We "Backseat Drive?" (00:02:44)

6. Stress Magnifies Everything in the Car (00:03:46)

7. Spousal Communication Solution - "Wiser Irony" (00:04:06)

8. The Goal - Solutions (00:04:43)

9. Classic Lines to try to IRon Out (00:05:11)

10. Conclusion/Call to Action - Your Stories! (00:05:48)

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