120: Willpower Won't Get You Through Christmas: 4 Steps to Change Your Drinking Beliefs
Mindful Drinking & Moderation in Midlife: Low No Drinker Podcast
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The festive season isn't one massive willpower test—it's death by a thousand shots. With six weeks of relentless celebrations from Thanksgiving through New Year's, willpower alone won't cut it.
In this episode, I unpack why beliefs, not willpower, are the real key to changing your drinking habits.
I share a four-step framework for gathering evidence to challenge limiting beliefs about alcohol, celebrations, and what fun actually means.
From assessing your self-talk to testing new behaviours at family gatherings, this episode gives you practical tools to navigate the season's cumulative exhaustion and build a Christmas that serves you on your own terms, not some outdated template from the past.
0:00 Death by a Thousand Shots
1:40 Willpower Explained
3:17 What Are Beliefs?
4:47 Thoughts, Actions, Outcomes, Beliefs
8:07 Gathering Evidence
8:35 Step One: Evidence From The Past
10:53 Step Two: Look to the Future
13:57 Step Three: Field Test
16:49 Step Four: Rebuild Your Beliefs System
20:07 What Truly Sustains Change
21:11 December Dailies And Advent Calendar
22:15 Power Hour Coaching
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Chapters
1. Death by a Thousand Shots (00:00:00)
2. Willpower Explained (00:01:03)
3. What Are Beliefs? (00:02:40)
4. Thoughts, Actions, Outcomes, Beliefs (00:04:10)
5. Gathering Evidence (00:07:30)
6. Step One: Evidence From The Past (00:10:02)
7. Step Two: Look to the Future (00:12:20)
8. Step Three: Field Test (00:15:24)
9. Step Four: Rebuild Your Beliefs System (00:18:16)
10. What Truly Sustains Change (00:21:34)
11. December Dailies And Advent Calendar (00:22:38)
12. Power Hour Coaching Invitation (00:23:42)
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