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Are You a Supercommunicator?
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On a scale of 1 - 10, how good are you at entering rapport in important conversations?
There are a handful of skills that create good conversationalists.
When you're in conversation, do you find yourself listening intently on what the other person is saying, or do you find yourself thinking about what you're going to say next?
Charles Duhigg’s book, Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection, out lines the three buckets that our conversations fall into:
- What is this really about? (practical)
- Who are we? (Social)
- How do we feel? (emotional)
Today we will break down different tactics to improve the effectiveness and enjoyability of our communication.
"Every discussion is made up of multiple kinds of conversations. And unless you're having the same kind of conversation as the other person at the same time, you can't really hear each other and you can't really connect."
― Charles Duhigg
"If there's one thing that I hope people carry away, it's this—that forming connections with others is really important...And the way that we do that is through conversations. And most importantly, anyone can learn to have meaningful conversations. Anyone can learn to become a supercommunicator."
― Charles Duhigg
"To communicate with someone, we must connect with them. When we absorb what someone is saying and they comprehend what we say, it's because our brains have, to some degree, aligned."
― Charles Duhigg
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Chapters
1. Are You a Supercommunicator? (00:00:00)
2. Are you a Supercommunicator? (00:00:20)
3. Intro: FBI communications (00:00:51)
4. Charles Duhigg's Book (00:01:41)
5. David Snyder's NLP - 3 Steps to Rapport (00:04:42)
6. My Personal 3 Discoveries (00:06:47)
7. TOOL OF THE DAY: What are Your Strengths? (00:10:05)
8. Closing: Are You a Supercommunicator? (00:11:53)
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