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Relationships Talk: Subconscious Sabotage

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I’m back for my lover girls, I know you desire healthy relationship where you can love and be loved the way you crave but I have to ask you, are you sure your ready for that?

I know you just rolled your eyes like girl yes what kind of question is that? But what if I told you to be in a healthy relationship you had to face yourself. You had to become SECURE within yourself before being in a secure relationship. I always thought if I was with someone who was healthy and not toxic I wouldn’t be insecure. WRONG. I found myself at every lover girls nightmare, finding someone who loves like you just for your insecurities to still come out and sabotage the relationship. I was looking and waiting for the shoe to drop, I was fighting every urge not to look at his phone.

Thats what my nervous system was used to, that’s what my subconscious brain told me was safe. There were stories I developed to protect me back in childhood. It was safer than facing myself. As always I share my experiences and realizations that led me to be secure within myself get out of self sabotaging.

Chat with me, send me a text!

Support the show

YouTube: alexiskelsey1313
COACHING: https://stan.store/Alexiskelsey1313

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I’m back for my lover girls, I know you desire healthy relationship where you can love and be loved the way you crave but I have to ask you, are you sure your ready for that?

I know you just rolled your eyes like girl yes what kind of question is that? But what if I told you to be in a healthy relationship you had to face yourself. You had to become SECURE within yourself before being in a secure relationship. I always thought if I was with someone who was healthy and not toxic I wouldn’t be insecure. WRONG. I found myself at every lover girls nightmare, finding someone who loves like you just for your insecurities to still come out and sabotage the relationship. I was looking and waiting for the shoe to drop, I was fighting every urge not to look at his phone.

Thats what my nervous system was used to, that’s what my subconscious brain told me was safe. There were stories I developed to protect me back in childhood. It was safer than facing myself. As always I share my experiences and realizations that led me to be secure within myself get out of self sabotaging.

Chat with me, send me a text!

Support the show

YouTube: alexiskelsey1313
COACHING: https://stan.store/Alexiskelsey1313

  continue reading

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