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A single letter changed everything. I brought home a report card full of “O’s” for Outstanding and watched my dad read them as zeros. That moment became a lifelong lesson about assumptions, authority, and what happens when certainty replaces curiosity.
In this episode, I revisit that scene, a bedroom shadowed by illness and alcohol, and trace how misread signals shape the way we parent, lead, and listen. We talk about leaving room to be wrong, asking what a metric truly measures, and why credibility grows from course correction, not perfection.
If you’ve ever felt unseen or unheard, this one’s for you.
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Chapters
1. When O Means Outstanding: Rethinking Assumptions, Power, and Listening (00:00:00)
2. The Report Card Misread (00:00:03)
3. Show Introduction & Host Context (00:00:40)
4. Father’s Health and State of Mind (00:01:18)
5. The Clash Over “O for Outstanding” (00:02:26)
6. Aftermath: Doubt, Silence, and Resignation (00:04:22)
7. From Memory to Meaning: Expectations (00:04:51)
8. Parenting With Curiosity Over Certainty (00:05:44)
9. Leadership Lesson: Leave Room to Be Wrong (00:06:49)
10. Why Curiosity Protects Trust and Innovation (00:08:16)
11. Closing: Naming Conversations to Loosen Their Grip (00:08:48)
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