Ever feel like you're fighting for a seat at tables where nobody actually wants you there? Yeah, me too. And honestly? I'm exhausted.

Here's the thing: I spent way too long trying to prove I belonged at the "important people" table—the leadership table, the ministry table, that table where everyone seems to have their act together. But something shifted for me recently. What if I was never meant to be at THAT table? What if God's been preparing a completely different seat?

If you've been second-guessing your gifts, exhausting yourself trying to fit in, or listening to the comment section of your life louder than God's voice? This episode is for you.

Time to stop scrapping for crumbs and start feasting at the right table.

Grab your coffee (or whatever gets you through the day), and let's talk about what happens when you finally realize you're not the backup casserole—you're the beloved child at the Father's table.

Timestamps: [00:00] Why I'm tired of being the object lesson

[02:30] The table I was actually meant for

[05:00] Colliding with God's love (and what that changes)

[08:00] The Saffy Burrito analogy that will make sense, I promise

[11:00] Moving in boldness when you know you belong

[13:00] Prayer for the beloved

Amber Weigand-Buckley is an award-winning author, podcaster as well as editor and art director for Leading Hearts magazine. She is also co-host of Coffee Chat with Amber & Lisa. Be on the lookout for her May 2026 release #sisterhoodoftheshortyellowpencils: Mental Health Mayhem, One Sticky Note at a Time. Follow her @barefacedgirl on socials for more.