What Every Woman Needs to Know About Stroke Symptoms: Chanell’s Story of Recovery and Identity

When you think of stroke, you might imagine it’s something that happens to older men. But the reality is far more complex, and far more urgent for women to understand.

Stroke is one of the leading causes of disability and death in women, and yet many women still don’t recognize the early warning signs, or they dismiss them as stress, migraines, or fatigue.

This is why stories like Chanell Havenga’s matter so much.

A Stroke at 35, During a Routine Procedure

Chanell, an adventurous and high-achieving 35-year-old industrial psychologist from South Africa, went into a hospital for a 15-minute cortisone injection to relieve years of debilitating headaches. She never expected it would be the beginning of a long fight for her life.

What was supposed to be a simple medical procedure resulted in a massive ischemic stroke, which left her unresponsive for hours. An MRI later revealed that large areas of her brain had been affected. Doctors told her family she might not survive the night, and if she did, she might never walk, speak, or function again.

Women Stroke Symptoms Aren’t Always What You Expect

Many of the women stroke warning signs Chanell experienced before her event had been dismissed by her and others as “just headaches.” But stroke symptoms in women can present differently, and they’re often overlooked or misunderstood.

Some of the most common women signs of stroke include:

• Sudden and severe headaches
• Nausea or fatigue
• Confusion or memory loss
• Loss of balance or dizziness
• Difficulty speaking or understanding language
• Blurred or double vision

If you’ve been experiencing symptoms like these, don’t wait. Stroke in women is often underdiagnosed simply because it looks different from the “classic” signs most of us hear about.

Relearning Everything After Stroke

After waking from her coma, Chanell couldn’t walk, talk, or even swallow. She spent six weeks in a rehabilitation hospital learning how to be human again, learning how to sit, eat, and stand. During COVID, visitor rules meant she had to fight for the right to see her support system daily, and she did, advocating for herself even when she had very little voice.

And that’s what makes her story so powerful. It’s not just about surviving a stroke—it’s about fighting for who you get to become after one.

The Post-Stroke Identity Crisis

“I remember waking up and thinking, ‘Who the hell am I now?’” Chanell said.

That question haunted her. Before the stroke, she had built her identity around being driven, competent, and full of energy. Suddenly, she was navigating life with neurofatigue, slurred speech, vision problems, memory loss, and hypersensitivity to noise.

What do you do when you can’t go back to who you were, and you’re not yet who you’re going to be?

For many stroke survivors, especially women, this post-stroke identity crisis can be just as hard as the physical recovery. Society often defines us by what we do, but what happens when you can’t do those things anymore?

Turning Pain into Purpose: My Stroke of Luck

In the quiet moments of rehab, Chanell began journaling. She captured her rawest thoughts, fears, and even her sense of humor as she stumbled her way forward, page by page. Those journal entries eventually became her published book:
My Stroke of Luck

Her book isn’t a “pity party.” It’s an unfiltered, honest, and even funny account of stroke recovery from a woman’s perspective. And it’s exactly the kind of support she wishes she had when she needed it most.

“It was the diary I wish someone had handed me in the hospital. Something that said: ‘You’re not crazy. This is just what healing looks like.’”

Why Women Need to Know This

Too many women ignore the early signs of stroke. Too many doctors misdiagnose them. Too many workplaces and families aren’t prepared to support them when it happens.

If you’ve ever searched for stroke for women, women stroke symptoms, or stroke in women, you know how scattered the information can be. Chanell’s story cuts through the noise. It reminds us that:

• A stroke can happen to younger women.
• Stroke symptoms in women may not follow the “typical” pattern.
• Full recovery isn’t just physical, it’s emotional, mental, and existential.
• Finding purpose post-stroke isn’t only possible, it’s powerful.

Chanell Today

Four years later, Chanell is using her background in psychology and her personal experience to help others. She’s:

• Volunteering at a stroke rehab hospital
• Raising awareness on the radio and in hospitals
• Exploring a podcast for stroke survivors in South Africa
• Offering psychometric coaching to help others rediscover who they are

She turned a life-altering stroke into an opportunity to reconnect with her values, use her voice, and become the guide she wished she had.

Final Word

If you’re a woman, or you love one, take a moment to understand the unique way stroke presents in women. Don’t brush off the headaches, the fatigue, or the “weird feeling” you can’t explain.

And if you’re already walking the post-stroke path, know this: you are not alone, you are not broken, and your story isn’t over.

Sometimes, the most powerful version of you is the one who emerged after everything changed.

Women Stroke Symptoms Often Go Unseen — Here’s What Saved My Life and Changed It Forever

Chanell’s stroke at 35 stole her words, but gave her a new voice. Her story is a roadmap for any survivor seeking strength, purpose, and healing.

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