Join hosts Ali and Ros on Relational Lives for a heartfelt follow-on from our autism episode, as we welcome Rose, who shares her inspiring journey of being diagnosed with autism at 15.

From early signs like shying away from eye contact as a baby to navigating meltdowns and masking in secondary school, Rose opens up about the challenges of sensory sensitivities, emotional overwhelm, and finding her place in a neurotypical world. She reflects on the transformative impact of homeschooling, counselling, and embracing her passion for working with children in a nursery. Rose encourages self-compassion and openness, offering hope to anyone exploring their own autism journey.

This episode is a must-listen for those seeking to understand autism through a personal lens, filled with resilience and practical wisdom.

Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome & Introducing Rose
01:19 – Rose’s Autism Journey: Early Signs from Infancy
02:56 – Developmental Delays and Misconceptions About Autism
05:07 – Secondary School Struggles: Meltdowns and Masking
07:11 – A Turning Point: Autism Awareness Day at School
09:07 – Navigating the Diagnosis Process: NHS and Private Routes
11:28 – The Impact of Autism on Family Dynamics
13:38 – Emotional Blockages and the Power of Counselling
15:29 – Homeschooling: Finding Freedom in Intensive Interests
18:00 – Building Self-Awareness and Confidence
22:43 – Sensory Sensitivities: Managing Bright Lights and Noise
27:32 – Rose’s Career: Thriving in a Nursery Environment
36:26 – The Support of Family: A Mother’s Understanding
38:23 – Connecting with a Neurodivergent Cousin
40:11 – Living Independently: Controlling Her Own Space
42:00 – Workplace Support and Managing Masking
43:11 – Strategies for Self-Compassion: Journaling and Cheerleading
44:39 – Finding Balance Through Hobbies: Clay and Watercolour Painting
45:35 – Advice for Others Exploring Autism
47:07 – Rose’s Message: “Don’t Diss Your Ability”
48:19 – Closing Thoughts & Takeaways

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Credits:
Hosts: Alison Bickers and Ros Peckham at www.mytempo.co.uk
Music by: Stile Tree Studio
Produced by: Synergy Podcast Studio