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106. WHY You're Not Seeing the Results You Want (And What You're Subconsciously Manifesting Instead)
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Transforming your reality begins with a deceptively simple shift: being intentional about where you source your information and advice.
We often default to whatever resources are most readily available – Facebook groups, friends, or family – without questioning if these sources actually align with our desires. This creates a self-reinforcing cycle where limiting beliefs get strengthened rather than challenged.
Consider what happens when a woman seeking a natural birth asks about pain in a conventional forum. She's immediately flooded with "I wanted that too, but..." stories that reshape her expectations before she's had her own experience. The anticipation itself creates tension, which intensifies pain – exactly like bracing before an elastic band snap hurts more than a surprise snap.
The solution isn't positive thinking or denial – it's strategic resourcing. Want a blissful birth? Seek women who've had one. Dream of financial freedom? Connect with people who've achieved it. Desire a balanced business? Find entrepreneurs who've built success without burnout. These encounters create what I call "the crack of possibility" – that moment when your mind opens to "What if it doesn't have to be this way?"
This approach transformed my own birth experience. By researching physiological birth and listening to women with positive stories, I created space for my own blissful experience. During labor, instead of anticipating increasing pain, I wondered, "What if it doesn't get more intense?" That question allowed my body to soften rather than tense.
Ready to transform your reality? Start by examining your information sources. Are they reinforcing limitations or expanding possibilities? The quality of your questions determines the quality of your life. What will you ask today?
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Chapters
1. Responding to limiting beliefs (00:00:00)
2. Birth expectations and pain anticipation (00:03:52)
3. Seeking alternative resources and stories (00:06:42)
4. Intentional resourcing changes your reality (00:09:35)
5. Expanding possibility with "what if" thinking (00:12:21)
6. Asking better questions creates better outcomes (00:14:17)
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