Manage episode 516313989 series 3407531
We unpack how “exclusive vibes without an agreement” let one person enjoy access while dodging the work of commitment, and we share a clear script and decision tree to end mixed signals. We draw firm lines on boundaries, couple privileges, and the difference between romance performance and real accountability.
• ambiguity as a tactic to avoid labels and responsibility
• exclusive routines without a clear agreement
• obligation versus fun and why labels feel risky
• practical boundaries on sleepovers, access and trips
• the “man dance” of performed intimacy without substance
• holiday pressure, social jealousy and non-breakups
• a direct script to define exclusivity and terms
• if it’s not yes, it’s no as a rule
• choosing a clean break over dating while attached
• self-audit on what accountability you are dodging
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Chapters
1. Mastering Ambiguity To Dodge Labels (00:00:00)
2. Exclusive Vibes Without An Agreement (00:02:06)
3. Obligation Versus Fun In Relationships (00:04:10)
4. Boundaries Around Sleepovers And Access (00:06:40)
5. Trips, Gifts, And Mixed Signals (00:09:05)
6. The Man Dance And Performed Intimacy (00:11:42)
7. Holidays, Jealousy, And Non-Breakups (00:14:20)
8. The Script And Decision Tree For Clarity (00:16:45)
9. If It’s Not Yes, It’s No (00:19:00)
10. What Accountability Are You Dodging? (00:20:20)
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