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We explore how the need for approval quietly weakens qualification, pricing, and closing, and show how to replace people pleasing with authentic, confident selling. Practical steps turn soft conversations into structured, trust-building dialogues that end with clear next steps.
• defining the need for approval and why it harms sales
• being likable versus needing to be liked
• approval-seeking behaviours that show up in calls
• pipeline, margin, and forecast consequences
• separating identity from role to regain control
• simple habits to build boundaries and use silence
• qualifying with courage and setting next steps
• reframing criticism as data and owning mistakes
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Chapters
1. Setting The Stage: Sales Psychology (00:00:00)
2. The Approval Trap In Sales Performance (00:00:52)
3. Defining Need For Approval (00:02:52)
4. Likable Versus Needing To Be Liked (00:07:03)
5. How Approval-Seeking Shows Up In Calls (00:12:06)
6. Pipeline, Margins, And Control Risks (00:14:54)
7. Detaching Identity From The Role (00:16:23)
8. Mindset Shifts And Behaviour Practice (00:17:48)
9. Boundaries, Silence, And Self-Respect (00:22:09)
10. Letting Go Of People-Pleasing (00:25:31)
11. Confidence, Trust, And Next Steps (00:27:06)
12. Closing Notes And Contact (00:28:34)
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