Ever feel like December turns your brain into a traffic jam of to-dos, emotions, and expectations? Jess opens the door to a quieter, kinder holiday—one shaped by real trees, paint-by-number nights, and a craft-strewn desk that used to be all business. This is a heartfelt exploration of confidence during seasons of change, from the high of a big speaking event to the full-body pause of new motherhood, and the mental loops that follow when we worry what others might think.
We dig into the surprising power of creative play to break the hustle spell. Jess walks through three practical shifts for a lighter season: follow the smallest spark of curiosity, put in a little intentional effort, and make simple plans with the people you love. Even if your calendar is packed, there’s relief in booking joy into January and giving yourself something to anticipate. Along the way, you’ll hear how slowing down creates space for gratitude, how tiny traditions can refresh your energy, and why choosing fun on purpose resets your confidence better than any pep talk.
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