Have you ever wished there was a place where you could speak about loss without feeling judged or rushed?

In this episode, Melanie Wilson shares how the sudden death of her father led her to create Death of the Party, a gathering where people can show up exactly as they are and feel understood in their grief. What began as a small idea in New York has grown into meaningful events that help strangers feel less alone.

Melanie also talks about Life and Soul, her new service that supports grievers through ceremonies, after loss tasks, estate needs, and end of life planning. She explains how real care often comes from community, honest conversation, and simple guidance during a time when everything feels overwhelming.

This episode is a gentle look at grief, connection, and the courage it takes to build something that helps others heal. It will make you rethink how we show up for the people we love and how we accept support when we need it most.

Tune in and discover a fresh way of understanding grief and the power of community that holds space for both pain and growth.

Key Topics:

-The comfort found in sharing grief with people who understand

-Building community through Death of the Party events

-The evolution of loss into purpose and service

-Creating Life and Soul to guide grievers with care

-The power of honest connection during moments of deep change

Quotes from the episode:

“Death of the Party came from wanting a space where no one has to hide their loss.”

-Melanie Wilson

“Community matters, especially in grief, because not everyone can afford or access professional spaces.”

-Jennifer Muldowney

Timestamp:

[00:00] Podcast Intro

[00:33] Melanie shared how losing her father pushed her to create Death of the Party, a grief focused gathering that gives people a safe place to meet others, express themselves in creative ways, and feel supported through shared loss.

[10:31] Melanie talked about how each event brings returning and new faces, why she keeps Death of the Party as an in person one time experience rather than a long term group, and how it offers community connection but not formal therapy, even though therapists sometimes recommend it.

[17:20] Melanie explained how Death of the Party led her to build Life and Soul, a service that blends ceremony work, after loss guidance, and practical support so grievers can move through funerals, paperwork, and planning with clarity and care.

[24:45] Melanie shared that her services are priced based on each person’s needs, that Life and Soul is a queer owned but welcoming space for all, and she encouraged listeners to connect, join future events, and follow the growth of her work.

[39:25] Outro

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